He keeps making fun of me whenever we are with friends in a group. When I get mad he says he just tries to be funny and crack jokes to keep everyone laughing. His jokes or whatever they are really get on my nerves after a while and I get offended. I mean, would you like it when someone is constantly picking on you or cracking jokes on you and everyone around is laughing at you?
Now you tell me what I should do??
2006-11-24 04:52:18 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Classic case of insecurity (with him, of course). You need to talk to him calmly. Don't get angry, and do it when you two are alone. Just tell him how you feel and how it makes you uncomfortable. Do NOT get angry.
If he continues to do it or tells you that it doesn't matter or you're hypersensitive, I would consider ending the relationship. Your feelings obviously don't mean as much as looking cool to him. Just approach it calmly, and see what he thinks. But you deserve respect, and he hasn't given it to you.
2006-11-24 04:56:57 · answer #1 · answered by Aegor R 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You could try making jokes about him in front of friends and see if he appreciates it. Or just tell him you don't want to hang out with him in a group any more since he finds it impossible to treat you kindly in front of others. If he doesn't get it, get a new boyfriend.
2006-11-24 04:55:24 · answer #2 · answered by schweetums 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him in private and explain to him how you feel if this continues, next time he does this crack a joke about him and let his friends laugh at him.
Personally i would D-U-M-P HIM!!!!!
2006-11-24 04:59:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't give a reason as to why he treats you like this. He sounds more like a bully than a boyfriend. My opinion is you dump him like the piece of trash he is, and find a guy who will treat you with the love and respect you so surely deserve.
2006-11-24 04:58:46 · answer #4 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In that case you should personally tell him that you don't like it at all and then check him if he obeys you,if he doesn't then it's time to say bye-bye,because you are not a clown.I think if he likes you then he would obey,otherwise he just having a time pass with you,best of luck!
2006-11-24 05:00:59 · answer #5 · answered by Mystery Man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that it offends you sometimes. You need to tell us what kind of jokes he is making. If he respect you, then he will stop.
Or better yet, do the same thing, make fun of him.
2006-11-24 04:56:04 · answer #6 · answered by Webballs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your boyfriend is extremely insecure in himself. He is making you the butt of his jokes to keep the focus off of his insecurity. I think you need to lose him. He'll only bring you down with him. Good luck.
2006-11-24 04:57:20 · answer #7 · answered by gemone523 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I would give him a dose of his own medicine. Let him see what it feels like for a change, trust me this will definitely work most people can give but they can't take.
2006-11-24 05:03:38 · answer #8 · answered by Ans 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I recommend that when you get a chance to talk to him privately, let him know your feelings. Tell him you don't like it when he does that and you really would like it if he stopped. But tell him you don't mean to be a "party pooper".
2006-11-24 04:56:35 · answer #9 · answered by Tim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUMP him!! What kind of man makes fun of his girlfriend?!?! He's supposed to care about you so why would he purposely want to hurt you? Find someone else who is worthy of your time.
2006-11-24 04:57:39 · answer #10 · answered by sasha_anton 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋