I was burned in the providence of Najah in Iraq . People now look at me like I am a monster... I cant tell them in a glance what I have sacrificed of myself for our freedom... why do I feel so alone.. and will anyone woman ever be able to love me?
2006-11-24 04:48:11 · 14 answers · asked by Twizler 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just find a chick that digs scars, dude. Good luck to you.
2006-11-24 04:52:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
There will be some woman out there that will be able to look beyond all that. I know how hurtful it must be for you. You won't always be single, it will just take a little time. Thats the bad thing about many Americans today, we all love our freedom and we all love to say "we support our troops" but when we see what some of them had to endure, bad burns, amputations, and paralyzation they can't digest it. Most Americans want the power to see what we are doing over in Iraq and the Middle East but they don't want to see what happens to your brave men and women when they get hurt.
I'm sorry to hear about this, you are not a monster, and thank you for serving. It sucks that we live in a country that puts such unethical pressure on looks that we think men have to look perfect and that we women have to be pencil thin, with air between our heads (obviously not me LOL).
2006-11-24 12:54:40 · answer #2 · answered by marajade_04 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Aside from how you were scarred, I would suggest that your first battle is first coming to terms with your physical situation - that which is most out of your control. If you think about it from the perspective of the many people with unusual physical attributes, the greatest challenge is learning to accept yourself with the myriad of messages that reinforce what and where beauty is found.
I think you will find as you accept and learn to love yourself for who you are, others will be attracted to that. I'm not trying to make light of the terrible situation that you've been through, but on the positive side, you still have the opportunity to be a great person - a person of character and goodwill and embody characteristics that any woman would be attracted to.
Confidence is the most attractive quality. Thanks for your service, but I encourage you to find a counselor and work on the the new challenges you face and build a constructive life.
2006-11-24 12:59:08 · answer #3 · answered by Peter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will find someone who will love you who you are on the inside and rather look at your scar as a hero who sacrificed it for his country. That woman will love you to the end and you don't have any problems
2006-11-24 12:54:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have nothing to worry about because a good woman will fall in love with you based on the goodness of your heart,not how your face looks sweetie. Just be patient!
2006-11-24 12:53:51 · answer #5 · answered by felita2004 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
as heart felt as your story is people are assholes!and dont look behind external beauty.with out b/s you around it aint going to be easy finding someone.but you just gotta treat people how you want to be treated and you will eventually meat your match.and you gotta have confidence in your self,you may be burded and scarred but you still have your health and you are alive!
2006-11-24 12:59:06 · answer #6 · answered by alexander 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes of course! not everyone is that shallow that they would judge you on your appearance. some people will but then someone judges everyone. If someone is judging you on how you look there not worth your time anyway. Keep smiling and show the world how strong you are! :)
2006-11-24 12:53:25 · answer #7 · answered by Rebecca 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
don't worry. this can only help u. it will get attention for u so all you have to do is look proud and nice with a smile on Ur face show them what you did for them. if they don't like it them there communist. be proud of that scar like i am for mine
2006-11-24 12:53:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Fate's got it all planned out for all of us. Someone as good as you to fight for the freedom of others is bound to find someone who will love him. Good luck, and keep your chin up!
2006-11-24 12:52:26 · answer #9 · answered by az270890 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The idea of love shouldn't be about what you look like.
2006-11-24 12:52:44 · answer #10 · answered by feisty 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋