he loves the boys, and is great and never yells. But they really annoy him! I'm expecting him to fit right into that "dad position" etc... etc....
he doesn't even take me out anymore!!
2006-11-24 04:43:22 · 8 answers · asked by Dolphinmarine 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
He's getting too close to your sons and easing up on you. Maybe it's time to cool things down a bit with him. His main interest should be with you not your kids unless the whole purpose of dating him is just to have a daddy for your boys but it doesn't seem like that from what you wrote. Maybe it would be a good idea not to have the boys there for dates with him until things get more solid in your relationship with him. I think maybe you let him get too comfortable in the dating process so he feels he doesn't have to take you out. Tighten it up or he will think he doesn't have to make a effort to woo you.
2006-11-24 04:54:38 · answer #1 · answered by cybefree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't possibly expect him to "fit right in" because as you've stated your sons annoy him and he doesn't take you out like he used to. I think it's time to move on. You've got your boys to think about. Find someone with some level of maturity.
2006-11-24 04:46:25 · answer #2 · answered by gemone523 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop expecting him to fit the "dad" position, they already have a dad. If he loves them and is good to them and to you be thankful for that. You can't expect another man to fill a position that is already taken.
2006-11-24 04:47:10 · answer #3 · answered by bellbottombleus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him...if he can't fit into the "dad position" just dump him. There are plenty of guys out there that would be happy to have a family.
2006-11-24 04:46:26 · answer #4 · answered by ascloud@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it sounds like that annoying part is an early warning sign that he maynot like your boys as much as u think, u may want to look for other warning signs of problems that he may be trying so hard to hide right now.
2006-11-24 04:46:37 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ gina ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well get the boys a babysitter and tell him u and him need to go out
2006-11-24 04:45:47 · answer #6 · answered by skaterboarder zachary 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur boy do that on perpes so u would get back with ur old boyfriend
2006-11-24 04:48:40 · answer #7 · answered by babygirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to have a life with him, without your boys, he is your husband
2006-11-24 05:03:12 · answer #8 · answered by pelancha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋