Okay I love living with my mom and everything but I just visited utah and I love it here and I love livin gwith my dad. I kinda want to live with my dad more than my mom because I always get more excitment with my dad than with my mom. And my sister turned to my dad and im scared my mom will get lonely. But she also has that guy that lives with me. But i really want to live with my dad but i dont want to hurt my mom. What do I do? Do i live with my dad? Do I stay with my mom?
2006-11-24 04:38:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Oh and also my mom lives in virginia and my dad lives in utah. Thats like across the country
2006-11-24 04:54:33 · update #1
it is a tough one; i would normally say, stay with your dad, because if you are happy with him, then he is doing something right. but can you live with the guilt of believing you are hurting your mother? i dont think that you can, you seem to be a very caring daughter so, do go back to your mother, but be aware that the price you will pay is high, this will be a sacrifice for you, and one that might sour your relationship with her, so if you do decide to go to her, do not expect to be welcomed and adored because you will not be, if you do this, you will be a better person, but it is going to be very tough indeed
ps - can you not do a 6 months at each house?
2006-11-24 04:47:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The excitement will fade once you make Utah your permanent home. Visiting a place and being shown a good time makes any place more inviting. Sit down my yourself and think about the life you have with your mom (a known) and the life that you would have with your dad - minus the excitement. Think about friends, school, opportunities. Loving your parents is a given and I am sorry that you feel that you have to choose between the two of them.
2006-11-24 04:43:01 · answer #2 · answered by kny390 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You alone have to make the decision. You can tell your mom that you love her,but you'd like to stay with your dad for awhile. You can always visit on weekends (if It's not too far) and holidays or vacation. This would let you keep the option of going home to mom if things don't work out with dad.
2006-11-24 04:48:16 · answer #3 · answered by Ralph T 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok i think u should live wit ur dad cause thats the 1 who makes u happyer and ur mom would get upset but im shure she wants u to be happy n the long run k
2006-11-24 04:42:02 · answer #4 · answered by rayray 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to do what will make you happy, if that's living with your father then do it. Your mother will be upset, but make sure she knows that you love her, but you also love your father and want to spend sometime with him. let her knwo that she has not lost the plac ein your heart and that you can always call and speak to her. what ever decision you make be strong everything will be alright.
2006-11-24 04:51:45 · answer #5 · answered by Chrystal S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll find excitement when you turn to decide to live with your mum. You'll be proud of your scarify to live with her instead of your dad. You can be happy by making someone happy.
2006-11-24 04:43:42 · answer #6 · answered by Srey Touch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are going to be happy with your dad, do it. Your mother has his partner, so she is not going to be alone. Good luck and be happy
2006-11-24 04:43:06 · answer #7 · answered by pelancha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
set your priorities.what will make you happY? what feels right? what do you think is right. you alone has the ability to decide for yourself.
2006-11-24 04:40:31 · answer #8 · answered by Grasshopper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋