I have a neighbor that lives across the street from me that I have had a crush on for about a year. Funny thing is that ive never really hung out with her, just see her passing by every now and then. However, last night I formally got to meet her at a thanksgiving party. She has a wonderful family and friends and I have met the parents and the friends a few times prior. I am confident yet shy at the same time. I did not really get much more than a hi in because there was a guy orbiting her the whole time so I was unable unfortionatly to get to know her more or anything. She goes to college up north and was home for thanksgiving. She is gorgeous, classy, intelligent, and very kind and probably very out of my league. I am about 3 or 4 years older than her. I dont think ive ever been more head over heals for someone before. I dunno what kind of chances I have considering she didnt really even look at me as far as I know last night but if I have a chance I would feel blessed.
2006-11-24 04:20:25 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In addition to what I wrote, I kind of feel dumb for not trying to talk to her at all last night, but every time I looked in her direction that guy was looking at me, I usually am overly confident but ive never felt this kind of way for a particular person that has so many things I like in a woman so close to that "perfect girl", and im not even referring to looks. I have a plate that they lent us to bring some desert home so I figured I would go return it later today or tomorrow. I am also on crutches at the moment so that has kinda got my confidence down since ive been on and off of them since may.
2006-11-24 04:36:57 · update #1
Ask her to hang out, before she goes back to college. Make sure she knows it's something completely platonic. Just as friends. You may hit it off, and build a great friendship. Great relationships start off with great friendships.
2006-11-24 04:23:07 · answer #1 · answered by Jenyfer C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you cannot really talk to her and get to know her then you will never know if you even have a chance or not! Approach her and just start talking, as my fiance said, jet get her talking about herself and you never know, she might secretly be crushing on you as well! Good Luck!
2006-11-24 12:25:00 · answer #2 · answered by SuzyBelle04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing 2 do is approach her, she should be able 2 give u like 10minutes of her time, from there u know what she likes and b4 u know it (u are friends)
2006-11-24 12:27:13 · answer #3 · answered by Cleopatra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mail her a dead chipmunk with a card saying, "Unlike this chipmunk, our love will never die"
Girls love that romantic crap.
2006-11-24 12:23:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋