Ive never had sex b4(yes im old enough......by a long way)but my girlfriend has. Ive known her for a while and we liked each other from the start. But she had a boyfriend so nothing really happened while she was with him. She broke up with him though about a month ago and now shes with me. We're gonna have sex for the first time next wk...it'll be my first time and she wants to make it special for me. But in her last relationship it was pretty much all about him when it came to sex and her needs never got a look in. So i want this to be special for her, and nice. Im really horny though.....im pretty much like a dog in heat rite now and i just wanna rip her clothes off and.....well you know. So can it be nice but at the same time be hot and wild? Should i let her set the tone, let her decide what way its gonna be? Or is that my job........thanks
2006-11-24 04:19:48 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should explore together. Since it's your first time, I think it should be slow and very sensual. Your first experience should be memorable as well. Anyone can have wild sex, that doesn't exactly figure the intimate feelings in though. I think you should both start slow and after you've gotten comfortable having s ex together, then get wilder and experiment more. Get the basics down first and trust me, alot men WITH prior experience "forget" that a woman actually has to be taken time with. Make the first time SPECIAL!!
2006-11-24 04:27:21 · answer #1 · answered by georgiarose_01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the first time should be slow and steady. If you get too wild too quickly, you may scare her away.
2006-11-24 04:22:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take it slow and steady. if it's your first time it's only going to last just so long anyway if you get my drift.
2006-11-24 04:25:21 · answer #3 · answered by big daddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter who leads,just have fun and enjoy the moment.
2006-11-24 04:22:36 · answer #4 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it does not matter just make sure shez comfy and enjoy the moment
2006-11-24 04:24:35 · answer #5 · answered by Franky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋