we had a fallin out because his job took a lot of his time, he said he had to stop talking to me, but now he has a new one and he called me last night to say happy thanksgiving and the 1 st thing he said to me what He missed me... he never gave me any reason not to trust him... and was nothing good to me... but i'm scared hes going to pull the same stunt.. should i just try it again?
2006-11-24 04:17:41 · 20 answers · asked by ♥ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I left my husband after 2 years of marriage. He had done nothing wrong, I just did not want to be married. It took too much work. Anyway, after 10 months apart I woke and and realized I had made the biggest mistake of my life. I called him, he was in another state by now, and told him I made a mistake. HE TOOK ME BACK! We have now been married (again) for 10 years! Thank God he gave me another chance. Go for it!
2006-11-24 04:22:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I doubt that the job ws the only problem in the relationship.
Think long and hard about this because you still have some doubts.
Also ask yourself if you would be thinking about getting back together if there was someone else in your life...
2006-11-24 12:20:37 · answer #2 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Happy Thanksgiving is just I thought of you and want to wish you Happy Thanksgiving...I miss you says I want to know if you miss me too... seems that you are not over him....become better acquaianted.
2006-11-24 12:23:03 · answer #3 · answered by Prudent World 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is your fear that is holding you back His job now or in the future may happen to take him away again, and if you do not get a grip on your insecurities , you will end up in a mess again
2006-11-24 12:22:49 · answer #4 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be fair to yourself... It's not that he cheated you way back.... He just freed you so that you will not cling unto him while he was working... He doesn't want to make you a prisoner of a relationship that has no future... But now that he is back, it is up to you what to do next... He seems like a very nice guy... Just be fair to yourself... If you love him take him again...
2006-11-24 12:22:15 · answer #5 · answered by ayskyubx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what makes you happy but i would'nt i feel ifit did not work the first time it wont work the second but if the only problem you had was with his job then maybe you should take a go for it and be happy he has a job most dont you crazy if you dont want him ill take him str8 up
2006-11-24 12:21:09 · answer #6 · answered by baby girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes - if you are desperate.
No - if you don't want a man who will always put work ahead of you.
Sheesh.. leaving you cause of his job.... then sniffing around 3 years afterwards.
You should wait for Mr.Right.. someone who won't pull that on you and who puts you first.
2006-11-24 12:24:26 · answer #7 · answered by Joe Bloggs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do it..I was in a similar situation..my high school sweetheart and I got back together after six years..we loved each other when we were in school and only because he went away to college we drifted apart..but after we got back together he was a changed man..not for the better but for the worse..leave old wounds alone..if you do get back together things may be great for awhile..then might get sour..you can be friends go out, and talk but dont get involved with him..and if you do want to be with him..take your time getting to know him all over again.meaning no sex for a few months..just hanging out and doing fun things..my current relationship my guy stressed us taking it slow..he wanted to get to know me better before jumping into a relationship..and it work..so taking things slow will help..
2006-11-24 12:24:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first thought is that you should trust your "gut" feeling about it. If you weren't happy together before, chances are it'll be a very similar experience if you do it again. But, who knows???
2006-11-24 12:28:33 · answer #9 · answered by KIT J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His job took presedence to your relationship. That should answer your questions as to whether you should give it another shot or not. He's trying to get off scott free. Don't let him.
2006-11-24 12:21:41 · answer #10 · answered by gemone523 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋