2006-11-24 04:17:13 · 11 answers · asked by idwill 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
well you have to build a new history with her. past behavior best predicts future behavior. if she doesn't cheat on you for a month then she probably won't cheat on you next month. anyway the point is take it one day at a time and i'm sure you can learn to trust her again.
2006-11-24 04:20:18 · answer #1 · answered by jrtootsiepop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is extremely difficult to regain trust once it's gone. There will always be a cloud of doubt. If you feel that your relationship is worth saving then you must work hard to regain that trust in her. Good luck.
2006-11-24 04:48:43 · answer #2 · answered by gemone523 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I really don't know. but if she truely loves you she won't ever do it again. It may have been something she did just to gain your attention back. Sometimes we do things because we miss them from someone else or we feel they don't care anymore. And trust leaves the situation and need comes in. If I were you give her a chance to show she still loves you and don't hound her alll the time about not being able to trust her and I'll bet things get better.
Good luck!
2006-11-24 04:27:54 · answer #3 · answered by curious_59 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You won't be able to trust anyone unless you can trust yourself. If you've already got that down, and you really want the relationship to work, take actions to make it a happy relationship. Go to couples counseling or marriage counseling if you need to, and find out what you were doing wrong, what she was doing wrong and then reverse those actions into positives. Good luck. I'd also pray about it. God will heal all wounds if you let Him.
2006-11-24 04:29:06 · answer #4 · answered by thezookeeper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Losing trust in a relationship is one of the worse things that can happen...You have one of two choices..One:Put the past behind you and move forward,give her the benefit of the doubt that she won't cheat again...Two:Walk away from the relationship and move on,find someone who will be always faithful...Going thru life with someone you doubt is not healthy for either of you...Sorry you have to make this decision...Good luck
2006-11-24 04:37:38 · answer #5 · answered by Frank D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its really hard to trust someone after they have hurt you badly, you may never have the same trust for her that you once had, the best thing i suggest for you to do it to try with all your heart to forgive her.
2006-11-24 04:21:25 · answer #6 · answered by KerryAnn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust is a tricky thing.....I would say just don't do it. I have never gotten over my trust issues with my hubby. I feel that I never will most days. I think it's easier to just let go and start over than to relive heart breaking moments each time you suspect them of lying.
2006-11-24 04:24:39 · answer #7 · answered by Amanda SSS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I recommend the site www.survivinginfidelity.com
You can move past the infidenlity and build a strong relationship. But you both have to be committed to looking forward, not back.
2006-11-24 04:54:06 · answer #8 · answered by psych_donkey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant,the best you can do is try and forgive.she may be able to gain some trust back but you will never be able to trust her fully again.
2006-11-24 04:43:02 · answer #9 · answered by alexander 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never will. You will always need confirmation as to where she is and when she will be home. If she loves you enough, she will understand. It was her mistake. You can move on and still love.
2006-11-24 04:21:14 · answer #10 · answered by MG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋