i ran into this guy one night and we hit it off,i was still bitter about catching my ex of a few years cheating(they r mutual freinds)he listened and understood,he drove me home that night and i invited him to stay,i asked him to sleep in the bed with me,he did,i asked him to put his arm around me,he did till i slept,he was such a gentlamn.things were awkward the next morning when he left,a mutual freind told me he liked me but was freaked about my ex(who still wants me back)i saw this guy again 2 months after that night and he came to me and said"your killing me'i saw him again 6 months later at a party,he showed up with another girl and saw me when he wlaked in and looked away.I will be seeing him again at a funeral tommorrow,what could he think when he sees me?anything?nothing?
2006-11-24 04:15:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
who's the funeral for? ex-bf! if so maybe now he thinks he has a chance
2006-11-24 04:26:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible that he liked you and was such a gentlemen because he either thinks you are a really nice person and he was trying to comfort you and be there for you, or, he actually liked you & he knew if he tried to pursue something it had the chance of not working out because you might have not liked him or you might have gotten back with his ex. I don't know if he still feels anything towards you especially now that you've seen first hand at that party that he's hanging out with a new girl. He probably sees you as nothing more than a friend, now. I'm sure tomorrow will be fine. Just play it cool. Good luck!♥
2006-11-24 04:20:39 · answer #2 · answered by DiVenanzo™ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds like he is crazy aobut you, just he knows you don't have the same feelings towards him and it kills him inside. the fact that he showed up with a femakle and walked right by you shows that he is deeply hurt and confused and doesn't know what to do, because if he was over you then he would have looked you right in the eyes. tomorrow he probably will feel the same way. he doesn't want to have to compete with your ex and thinks there is no chance, so if there actually is a chance let him know it. and don't do back with your ex once a cheater ALWAYS a cheater.just talk to the other guy, he was there when you needed him the most and tell him hereally helped you through a hard patch, it will losen things up alittle
2006-11-24 04:22:13 · answer #3 · answered by Chrystal S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares what he thinks? You've had several opportunities to get with him and...sorry to say, but you blew it. Obviosly you were not ready to move on and that's okay. But now it's time to move on past this guy and past your ex. He has obviously moved on and you need to too! Good luck!
2006-11-24 04:19:55 · answer #4 · answered by BJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might want you still and want your relationship to be more that what it is right now. If he comes to the funneral with another woman then he probably wont say anything but if he is alone then he will probably talk to you
2006-11-24 04:19:47 · answer #5 · answered by D'Whannah Lowe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the last thing you should be concerned about is if you are going to hook up or not. for Christ sakes get your priorities straight you are going to a funeral not a cocktail party.
2006-11-24 04:23:30 · answer #6 · answered by mark_grvr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing,you had your chance and now it's gone.Just move on.
2006-11-24 04:18:42 · answer #7 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably will ignore you, unless he's split with his girlfriend...
Perhaps you should wait and see... Maybe he won't turn up...
2006-11-24 04:18:09 · answer #8 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, they do. they could get really mad at the girls for being mean and chaeting on them.
2006-11-24 04:19:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋