My mom is a very cool person easy to talk to and all that stuff. but newaysz she knows about this whole situation with my ex-boyfriend and i and she said she'll talk to him if i want her to. should i let her? Or will that make the situation worst?
2006-11-24 04:14:09 · 9 answers · asked by ♡Miszzy_327♡ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That would only make the situation worse, and prove to the world that you are still to immature to be dating...
While cool moms are great (I know, I have one!) they should never be involved with talking to ex's in any way, shape, or form... The other person will undoubtly laugh at your poor attempt to win him or her back, and you'll still have a broken heart...
Have a heart to heart with you mom, eat some icecream or go shopping... Thank her for her concern and the offer of interveining on your behalf, but let her know that its your problem and that you want to deal with it... It will show her that your a mature, in control kind o' gal who knows where her towel is at (Douglas Adams reference if you didn't get the bit about the towel... :P)
2006-11-24 04:20:39 · answer #1 · answered by C.G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the fact that your Ex is your EX says alot! You two aren't together anymore. I think you probably should leave him alone unless you are actually trying to get back together. it sounds like you have a cool and compassionate mom and she gets a two thumbs up for being involved in her kid's life but you have to remember one day you will be married and you will have to solve your own marital problems and this is a good time to start. so don't invovle her at this point. you need to try to do this on your own. If you are trying to work out your problems and get back together you ned to be honest with your ex but if the relationship is really over you need to accept that and move on. it's a hard pill to swallow sweetie but you need to take your lumps and move on. be sure to figure out the reasons (on your own) and fix them before jumping into anything new grieve the loss of the relationship and THEN after taking the proper time to heal, you'll be ready to find love again. the reason I dont' think you need to bring mom in is that I think your Ex will lose some respect for you and will be afraid you'll ALWAYS run tomom ad that is something adults dont' do. It's great that you have a cool mom but it really pushed my button when I was datign my ex and he said I was a mama's girl. He saw the livid look on my face and BARELY manaed to save his own rear end with the "but you have a cool mom" comment. So you dont' want to bring her in no matter how cool she is for that reason. you DONT want to be the mama's girl. On one more note, How great is this guy, anyway? I think you are still into him.
2006-11-24 12:24:58 · answer #2 · answered by KZ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that's a good idea. Whatever issues you are having with your ex-boyfriend should be dealt with between you and him. Your mom may be easy to talk to where you are concerned but you do not know how your ex feels about it. Try to resolve your issues together.(you and your ex) Leave mom out of it.
2006-11-24 12:19:18 · answer #3 · answered by gemone523 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no dont let her talk to you it is the worst thing for a guy to have a mom/adult come talk to them about a past or current relationship. Im pretty positive it will only make the situation worse due to the guy hating you for sending your mom in to talk to him the best thing to do is you yourself talk to him or write a letter about how you are feeling
2006-11-24 12:17:35 · answer #4 · answered by sumdood2005 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your mom is as open as you say then I would talk to her. Moms can surprize you at times and have great answers. and maybe a talk from your mom might get the message through to your ex.
2006-11-24 12:20:30 · answer #5 · answered by curious_59 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is easy to talk to; remember?
2006-11-24 12:15:32 · answer #6 · answered by Prudent World 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your exactly why couples HAVE PROBLEMS!!!
Gotta tell mommy everything? Why not take care of your own problems?
2006-11-24 12:17:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good question,should you?
2006-11-24 12:16:00 · answer #8 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her first wat she is going to say and then ur on ur own
2006-11-24 12:19:22 · answer #9 · answered by master brad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋