Right in relation to my earlier question, how many calls would a man need to make to a woman to be deemed desperate? I met a girl we got on we arranged a date had to call it off, i text her and she did not text back yet, so am i being needy if i call her?? The reason I ask is i always forget to call people back and am not the best at replying to text messages either, so if people only tried once they would never catch me.
2006-11-24 03:55:48 · 12 answers · asked by bishbashbosh11 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh yeah last time i contacted her was yesterday and i am thinkin of calling her tomorrow.
2006-11-24 04:02:06 · update #1
just a bit more than thats enough
2006-11-24 03:58:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say wait a little bit (sometimes people don't have the chance to respond right away) and your next message should say something like "not sure if you got my 1st message, my phones been acting weird, but I just wanted to touch base" ... ALWAYS blame it on technology!
If you find yourself calling or texting her again and again without a response ... not only does that seem desperate, but also a little obsessive AND stalking!
2006-11-24 12:00:02 · answer #2 · answered by Just B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just phone her up and tell her how sorry u are about missing out on meeting her. Tell her how u feel and how much u want to see her again. Then arrange somethin definate and make sure u turn up this time
2006-11-24 12:04:37 · answer #3 · answered by rachel d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write again.
And work on your attitude of not calling people back, or otherwise responding.
It will only make it look as if you do not value them as people.
If you ARE desperate for her, does it matter that she knows?
2006-11-24 12:01:50 · answer #4 · answered by alan h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends how much time has past. i would say wait an hour between calls (at least). Set a timer for yourself so you won't forget when the hour is up.
2006-11-24 11:58:26 · answer #5 · answered by jrtootsiepop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one more call is enough..if she don't reply back then call it a day...she may not have credit in her phone, she could be busy, she could even have a partner...who knows...if you call her one more time and if she don't reply...then don't bother any more
2006-11-24 12:03:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her a call tomorrow about 11ish and ask her if you fancies meeting up later that day or even tomorrow
2006-11-24 16:35:07 · answer #7 · answered by Baps . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, give her a call tonight! You'll never know if you don't phone her! Good luck.
2006-11-24 11:58:23 · answer #8 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Couldn't you leave a message ?
2006-11-24 11:59:00 · answer #9 · answered by Scotty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should wait maybe a day and then call her.
2006-11-24 12:01:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋