get some courage cowardly lion and walk up to her and just tell her how you feel no matter how lame it may sound to you...just dont studder be calm and look her in the eyes
2006-11-24 03:43:39
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answered by the one 3
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Hello there.
STEP 1: Get inspired. Look back on the times when you really enjoyed being around her, discovered that you might have a lot in common, or realized that you had tremendous respect for her.
STEP 2: Put yourself in her shoes. Based on what you know about her, imagine what language or situations might make her uncomfortable, and avoid them. If you are unsure, err on the side of caution. Avoid overemphasizing the appeal of her physical appearance.
STEP 3: Choose an appropriate venue for your disclosure, so that you can avoid embarrassment and awkwardness as much as possible. Telling her on a sailboat, miles away from shore, or announcing it from the audience of a talk show might not work out well for either of you.
STEP 4: Make yourself clear. You do not have to be cryptic to be tactful. Rather than wrapping your feelings of romance in a riddle, clearly convey your attraction. "You might already know that I like you, but I want you to know that I am interested in you romantically."
STEP 5: Keep the door open for a response, without putting pressure on her. Let her know that you want to remain friendly, even if you do not develop a closer relationship.
STEP 6: Resist requesting an immediate response. It is pretty off-putting if you say, "Well, what do you think of me? I mean, I could be wrong, but I am pretty sure that I was getting a vibe from you. Am I right or am I right?"
STEP 7: Give your declaration some time to sink in. It may take a few days or even weeks. Once you start counting the months go by, you can safely bet she is not interested.
STEP 8: Let it go and move on if the feelings are not mutual or if she doesn't mention it again.
STEP 9: Celebrate with her if she believes that you two just might become an item.
STEP 10: Learn from your experience, whatever the outcome. What would you do differently next time? Are you often interested in women who don't feel the same way about you? Are you open to approaching different women than you have ever considered for a relationship before?
i hope that helps!
Good luck.
2006-11-24 12:11:40
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answered by Anonymous
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AHHHHH! Thats sweet! Well ask her to hang out with you or try to hang out with her a little more. Ask her to hang out with you after school or something. If she agrees, take a walk around town or something romantic and tell her you like her. If she says she likes you too, GREAT! If she says she wants to be friends, Remember there are planty of fish in the sea! Hope I helped!
2006-11-24 11:45:39
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answered by Ms. New Cutie 2
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Be straight with her. Tell her. This is coming from a girl of the age of 14. I have had my share of guys and i like it the best when they are straight forward with me. So just go and YOU talk to her. Pull her aside and just talk to her.
2006-11-24 12:25:03
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answered by chelsea_rainey2006 1
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Just tell her you like her and you care for her. i mean its really hard for a guy to even say anything to a girl about anything and how they feel. I see what position your in...but just tell her that you like her when u guys are alone or like ask her if you can talk to her for a minute with just you 2, and Say it. Thats all you got to do...but i can see if its hard for you.
2006-11-24 11:44:55
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answered by ♥mcmanda♥ 5
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sorry dude, but if you like her like a 5 then I wouldnt say anything to her...you must like this person at least like a 7 or 8..
2006-11-24 11:49:46
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answered by Anonymous
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Just say to her, "I like you."
If you think this is going to freak her out, you can say, "hey, you don't have to respond to this, but I just wanted to let you know that I like you."
Good luck!
2006-11-24 11:44:20
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answered by ♪ ♥ ♪ ♥ 5
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just tell her the truth wif courage and braveness
honest make prefect
hope ii help.
Good Luck...
all da best......^^
2006-11-24 11:51:38
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answered by Vengence 2
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just go to her and tell her how you feel. it will come naturally once you start talking.
2006-11-24 11:48:28
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answered by Bola.J 2
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Tell her only when you are sure what to say !
2006-11-24 11:45:09
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answered by Just_for_fun 3
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