I got really friendly with a guy on chat. We swapped phone numbers and chatted on msn all the time. I know it was only chat but i really fancied him for his mind as well as his looks. I had to go into hospital for 15 days and when i cam out i found he had got chat married to some other girl. Im gutted and cant stop crying. Why am i so upset when i didnt even get the chance to meet him?
We were friends for 4 months and now he wont talk to me
2006-11-24 03:36:45 · 17 answers · asked by GummyBear 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We chatted on the phone and had arranged to meet when i got better so it was very real for me. I just didn't know he was winding me up
2006-11-24 06:01:11 · update #1
Honey he wasn't worth it. If he really liked u he would have contacted u and told u what he was doing and why. I know it was only an internet friendship but it was real to u. He just isn't the right one for u. Just be pleased u found him out for what he is before u got in too deep. Now u need to move on and find a real man. And by that i don't neccessarily mean move away from internet friendship, just find a guy who is genuine and honest not like this loser
2006-11-24 03:54:13 · answer #1 · answered by rachel d 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Consider this a painful warning about Internet 'dating':
More than half of people who use the Internet for 'dating' are presenting a false persona. I'd actually put it at 90%, but I've been burnt on the telephone, after 'meeting' someone online.
About 3/4ths of Internet 'dating' types are very low on social-skills, or natural charm, or personal hygeine, or basic decency, or morality, or some other vitally important element of meeting and connecting with people face-to-face, (mostly they're just hideously insecure, and afraid of rejection, but there is a fair old proportion of psychos and just plain ghouls out there) -- in short, you would never date them if you met them in person. (THINKING POINT: Why do you use Internet chat to meet people?)
A healthy working assumption is that anyone you meet online is making him/herself SEEM sane, safe, healthy, and attractive. DO NOT get caught in anyone's nets. There are also a lot of very predatory people (male and female) who stalk the chat rooms, looking for people to toy with, and when they get bored, they move on.
Looks as though you met one of those.
Burn your bridges. Unsubscribe from those chat rooms and online dating services, and, not to be harsh, because you probably are more insecure than anything else, get a life, sister!
2006-11-24 04:01:23 · answer #2 · answered by protectrikz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He touched you and you got connected. Its easy to fool others through chat in the cyber world. You need to be careful not play with your feelings. If he really felt the same for you he would of tried contacting you or sent offline messages. Why would he ignore now...one answer..he was playing you. It wasnt real for him. Get off the computer and get some fresh air and meet the real thing.
2006-11-24 03:41:14 · answer #3 · answered by Ivory_Flame 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Crying does that solve your problem?Go on chat more you will soon meet someone even better or got off your PC and meet real people.In these chat rooms we are all cute,rich,smart and single etc, is that what you want?If yes you will soon be crying again
2006-11-24 05:07:45 · answer #4 · answered by TheMan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dear! you got used to talk to him ,you enjoyed your time with him and he might be a good listener and sweet talker but now just let him go ,he is not the right one ,you never ever can know people by chatting with them ,I dont say you must stop finding friend online but try to not get involved to anybody and never believe them easily ,Now you have this opportunity to find some other new friends in chat and some real friends in real life ..Good luck!
2006-11-24 03:42:05 · answer #5 · answered by Mysterious 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You know what? The heck with that guy, he probably had 10 other women that he talked to just like you. There are a million guys on line that are just waiting to talk to some one just like you so don't give up hope and get busy
2006-11-24 03:39:56 · answer #6 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
never been chate maarried how dose that work? you never get to toucheach other. Now Not to be rud when you heart on the floor but there are more of us here yes i hava and use yahoo chate and web cam every day
2006-11-24 03:49:55 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did it occur to you that he might have a special girl during your friendship period??? Well he may not talking to you anymore because he doesn't want to hurt you further. If you need a friend you can talk to me... I accept IM's... have a nice day...
ayskyubx@yahoo.com
2006-11-24 03:40:48 · answer #8 · answered by ayskyubx 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey!
i know what u mean, i've been in the same situation, only, i had met the guy in a hotel during my summer holiday.
u know what?
it's just part of life!
u'll get through it, and u'll see, there r many great men out there, just wait..b patient!
2006-11-24 03:47:33 · answer #9 · answered by Manal 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow such a hard life, this guy is not worth your whiny crying over for goodness sake, grow up little girl. this was on line stuff stupid it is not for real. got over it. you spend way to much on the computer.
2006-11-24 03:40:09 · answer #10 · answered by picture 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋