why do men date ugly woman, cause sometimes i see men with ugly woman, don't they get turned off when they kiss an ugly woman? wouldn't they get more turned on kissing a hot girl? so why do men date ugly woman and not hot woman? i don't understand that.
2006-11-24 03:29:14 · 28 answers · asked by US 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't be so judgemental. Looks aren't everything.
2006-11-24 03:30:23 · answer #1 · answered by Lt 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
A lot of who you end up with has less to do with your ideal mate and more to do with what you think you deserve, or are able to get.
That said, at the end of the day, I would place a great deal more stock and value in who the person is, than what they look like. I'd be much more turned on by kissing a girl I knew truly loved me than I would some hot looking *****. For me, it's about connecting souls, not just getting off.
One more thing, I have known women who, at first appearance were anything but attractive, but as I got to know them and had the time to look deeper into who they were, they actually became more attractive to me - even physically. I have no logical explanation for that, but it's true. The opposite is also true - a hot chick with a crappy attitude (especially the ones who seem stuck on themselves) lose those hot points really fast.
If women want to be attractive to anyone worth attracting, I suggest going easy on the makeup and clothes, and build who you are on the inside. Then you'll be truly beautiful years after all the empty, plastic Barbie dolls are worn out and tossed aside.
2006-11-24 03:41:20 · answer #2 · answered by stargazerjimbo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be so narrow minded. Just because a women is not pretty doesn't mean they are not nice and have a good heart. I am dating a lady right now that is not ugly, but she is not a raving buety either. She a very kind and conciderate person and is great in the sack. As the old saying goes, "Beuty is only skin deep" and besides that not everyone is lucky enough to have a drop dead gourgeous lady ready to go out with them. Ugly women and men need love too.
2006-11-24 03:36:51 · answer #3 · answered by golden rider 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are extremely vain. There are hot women with ugly guys too. The point is, everyone wants something different in their life and sometimes these so called "ugly women" may bring a lot more into their lives that make them happy. In some cases, some guys will also take what they can get. But beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I wouldnt JUDGE what people do. It is THEIR LIFE, not yours! Get over it.
2006-11-24 03:31:47 · answer #4 · answered by bluestar_dreamsx 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it seems like you're idea of ugly is very thin, so what is hot to you blonde bimbo with a big rack and @$$, it's probably that they realize that, that so called beauty will go away with age and that they will still be able to talk to the person that they are with beacause they can actually hold a conversation, there is such thing as a personality. is that what you mean by ugly , because honestly i don't understand. Personality is actually important to some people and being able to hold a conversation is also a plus most of the time. i guess not in your case.
2006-11-24 03:34:45 · answer #5 · answered by Chrystal S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably because there aren't enough hot wome to go around and that alot of guys don't think they can hook up with a hot woman and some guys don't see the woman that they are with as being ugly. And besides if alot of guys are out with ugly women then that leaves more hot women for you to be with
2006-11-24 03:32:11 · answer #6 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You ever heard beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
you sound pretty young. so I'll be kind.
the two major down falls with extremely good looking people
are this-
1-they have cruised through life so long on their looks their social skills were never developed. in other words they look good but behave like assholes.
2- the worst thing about looks is at some point gravity takes hold and everything that once looked great is now gathered around the mid section.
looks are superficial and mean nothing in the grand scheme of things. in the end you want someone who you can hold an intelligent conversation with and who is pleasant to be around
2006-11-24 03:52:03 · answer #7 · answered by mark_grvr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good question...I once had a friend she was a nice person, attitude was great, and had a nice body, but damn she was ugly and her teeth was horrible and when she got her boyfriend I was like damn how can he kiss her and most of my guys friends would say if I had to do her I would put a bag over her head... but I didnt look at it that way....I looked at the fact that she was my friend and that we got along great together..I think that guys may feel as though pretty girls have attitude problems and are high mainteance... I do consider myself very pretty but I am also a sweet loving fun and crazy person...I think that only guys can answer this question..froma women point we are only guessing
2006-11-24 03:40:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Maybe he has an Ugly Mom and this girl looks just like her or maybe he couldn't do any better or doesn't want to try.
2006-11-24 03:33:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they actually see a pretty women, not ugly. To each man / woman, looks are different to all. What's ugly to you could be hot to another, same vice versa.
2006-11-24 03:33:02 · answer #10 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because ugly and/or overweight women usually have lower self-esteem. When a guy shows interest, they usually are willing to do more for the guy to keep his interest. The guys take advantage of this, cuz they are getting what they want.
2006-11-24 04:02:23 · answer #11 · answered by angelbaby 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋