2006-11-24 03:20:59 · 23 answers · asked by honeyki2004 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
not if you haven't told him how u feel first and then brake up with him if things don't work.Sometimes people don't know what they've got until it's gone.When someone see something they want that they can't have it makes u want it more.Maybe u should try talking to him about this first and see if things will change and if not brake up then do your thang k good luck n I hope I could help.
2006-11-24 04:18:49 · answer #1 · answered by too4barbie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, life is way to short to hang out with some unemotional guy that only shows affection when it is right for him and usually it is only to something he wants to show emotion to. Not showing enough emotion could be a sign he is bored with you or that something is bothering him about the relationship. It could be a sign that by not showing enough affection that you will go look for it some where else so what can it hurt.
2006-11-24 03:24:21 · answer #2 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to define affection a little more. Does that mean he doesn't open your door for you any more and does not bring you flowers anymore - or is it that sex has become boring and routine and infrequent. In the first example - you are not going to get flowers without the expectation of sex somewhere down the road. And if you are looking for more or better sex, haul both your a**es down to a swingers club and check it out.
2006-11-24 03:25:37 · answer #3 · answered by bocasbeachbum 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him he's not showing you enough affection and ask him if you can seek affection elsewhere. See what he says, I'm sure he'll be ecstatic about the idea.
2006-11-24 03:26:57 · answer #4 · answered by Ben R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To put it simply...........NO it is NOT alright to go looking elsewhere, unless you break up with him first. Why don't you discuss this with him and how you need more affection? I had to and he changed, but then again, I wouldn't have done anything so childish as cheat on him.
2006-11-24 03:23:52 · answer #5 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no is wrong. u need 2 bring it 2 his aatention & if he does nothing then u must move on & end the relationship. infidelity will hurt every 1 so b responsible 4 yr actions & make the right decision
2006-11-24 03:25:11 · answer #6 · answered by Ms. San 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fair thing to do is tell him how you feel, just dont punk out. Talk to him, maybe he feels that you aren't giving enough and is holding back or maybe he feels scared that he'll be rejected. But SAY something and if you step out on him, dont do the back and forth thing.
2006-11-24 03:24:55 · answer #7 · answered by fan_wan :-) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah Honey dump this guy and be with someone that will show you the affection that you want and deserve
2006-11-24 03:23:10 · answer #8 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only way its right is if you have told him how you feel because sometimes people don't notice it but if you have told him and its the same way then yeah do what you have to and then not trying to be mean but in my case i don't show my dude no affection because i want him to get gone
2006-11-24 03:25:22 · answer #9 · answered by baby girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely.
2006-11-24 03:23:46 · answer #10 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋