Do you all think its worth letting him know or not.He has not really contributed much to my upbringing apart from paying my rent in college(which i have to call and ask for) he has the money. He is so selfish at times he doesnt even know what city i live in he always asks me what city i live in can u imagine??
2006-11-24 03:16:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
This is a choice that is totaly up to you in making!! If it were me and I was angry I would find a time to sit down with my father and tell him everything that was has or had done that made me angry with him. This is good on your part because you will not have that anger built up inside of you and it lets your father know what he is doing to his own child!! If you do not feel comfortable with finding a time to talk with him one on one then try talking to one of your friends or somebody you trust and see what happens after that!!
2006-11-24 03:21:26 · answer #1 · answered by shy town 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing should be more important in a persons life than their kids. So yes you should. But also think of this, if you do tell him what an insensitive PRI*ck he is, will he cut the rent money off and leave you with zero fundage. If you can do with out the dough then OK go for it. When you call for the rent money and he asks for the city say in a smart **** tune "Gee dad what city did you send it to last month", I am your kid for GOD sack and you do not even know where i live. What is the matter with you??????
2006-11-24 11:23:51 · answer #2 · answered by picture 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your father helped to give you life but then chose not to participate in it. I am not sure if it would do much good talking to him about it. Don't waste your energy being angry with him as he doesn't even take the time to know where you are living. Spend your energy with your mom, who cared, loved, and raised you and use all of this to be a better person yourself.
Good luck!
2006-11-24 11:20:53 · answer #3 · answered by Raspberry 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i think you should tell him one because the question is confusing to me maybe he wants to come see how you are living and paying your rent was something I am sure just be thankful for that my daughters father wont even do that all he ever does is lie,lie,lie,lie,lie
2006-11-24 11:20:35 · answer #4 · answered by toofavorable 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you and your father should just sit down and have a brief chat about how your feelings are about him and why he makes you so uncomfterable!
Tell me how it ends up! ;)
2006-11-24 11:19:57 · answer #5 · answered by alz alz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i can't.How did you get the last check if he doesn't know where you are?
2006-11-24 11:19:00 · answer #6 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋