I am 14 and having a baby-don't comment on that please. Look at me as a normal human being. My boyfriend lives all the way up in Idaho I am so craziyl in love with him I sit at home and cry my eyes out thinking about him and just wait for the next time we talk. Abortions are wrong, I truelly want to be with this boy I think adoption would be best. I know I'll never see him again but it's not about me anymore maybe giving it up to someone who cannot have children and just moving with my life down in arizona, it's been 3 mnts we've been apart if I were to have the baby he owuld be down for the summer maybe I should just let it all go go back to a regular school meet some friends and maybe find a nice guy that won't get me pregnant in the first place-I'm thinking adoption.
2006-11-24 03:07:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Adoption is a good option. Get the paperwork started now and move on with yoru life. Stop the crying for that loser, move on with yoru life and make appropiate choices on birth control.
Good luck
2006-11-24 03:10:31 · answer #1 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a common situation that is on the rise and you have to become a strong women since you took that big step on getting pregnant. You know what your options are and really need to think things through. Are your parents aware? If there are, are they involved and willing to help with some of the responsibilities since you are still a kid? You can go to a support group. I have many friends who have got pregnant at a early age and I tell you like I tell them. If the guy is not with you now you need to drop him. Its about you and whats best for your child. You need to get focused and stay away from boys. This should be a lesson to you. If you have a strong family support system keep the child but if you don't feel like you can take up the responsibility then adoption is the best bet. your child can grow up in a stable home,financially and emotionally with parents who are mature to take up full responsibility. You need to finish school and get a good education so you can get a good paying job.Be a independent women.You are looking for love in all the wrong placed to fill some sort of empty or loneliness.Love and respect yourself because you are worth it and worth the wait. There will be many people you will love in your life but does not mean you have to sleep with them or be with them.
2006-11-24 11:24:42 · answer #2 · answered by louise23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if adoption may be a better option for you. You may be better off finding a new boyfriend and moving on with your life. It's hard to have a boyfriend so far away. If you are really thinking of putting your baby up for adoption, we are hoping to add to our family through adoption. Good luck!
http://ouradoptionplan.com
2006-11-25 21:01:23 · answer #3 · answered by Joanne D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
adoption sounds like the best way to go, you want your baby to have the best possible life it can. good luck
2006-11-24 11:09:51 · answer #4 · answered by Sami 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You said one thing right, you are 14 and crazy! Sorry, I couldn't resist.
2006-11-24 11:09:38 · answer #5 · answered by Special K 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
adoption. please do not kill an innocent child.
2006-11-24 11:10:23 · answer #6 · answered by danielsexton17 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋