really like my crush and this is the first time i just dont like a guy becuz he is cute. i want to know if he likes me. i cant get the subject out of my head. ok 1. he will say hi to me (without me sayin it first) 2.hell start conversations with me mostly about basketball. 3. he will walk with me to some classes and lunch and what gets me the most is that hell walk the same pace i go and acts like he want to walk with me. 4. i could tell that he is not a big flirter but he tries. he touched me one on the hand when he was talking to me but he doesnt flirt alot. 5. he teases me alot and that usually makes me laugh. 6. hell take things from me and you know what i mean. 7. he listens to me. i like him alot so please help me out. do you think he is just flirting with me for fun becuz i know some guys will sometimes flirt with anybody? i do flirt withm. how do i keep it this way. i dont want anything to happen that makes him stop & what r some convo. starters that i can do wit him?? please!
2006-11-24 02:57:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Signs a guy likes you
I think the most obvious signs a guy likes you is when he says the dumbest things just to keep talking. I say this because a guy I really like does that to me but he doesn't want to admit that he likes me. Because he thinks I will laugh. Also if a guy tries to hold your hand or starts talking dirty as a joke its totally obvious.
one of the most obvious signs that a guy likes you is that he will just always stare at you even if they don't know you, they will just stare at you from a distance hoping that you will notice them
Most likely a guy will just stare at you a lot of the time and when you look his way he just stops looking at you until you look away. He will always ask only you for stuff they really don't need. Just so that they can get yur attention or he just wants to small talk or even make you laugh!
I agree!! when a guy likes you, you notice them always staring at you, looking until they notice your looking to so they know that you are intrested at least, I also think when a guy calls you at random times or calls you a few times a day just to say hi, means that he is intrested. it also makes you feel good, I think its the sweetest thing.
when a guy likes to play around a lot and glance his eye at you a lot even when your looking. he makes up nicknames and picks on you for fun because he nos it will be a funny joke and not serious to make you mad. when your angry he will feel sad for you and tell you he's sorry if he bothered u. they also will take up for u.
HE WILL RESPECT YOU A WANT TO KEEP IT REAL ABOUT IT ALL. HE'LL ALSO TELL YOU THE TRUTH ABOUT YOURSELF.BUT NEVER SAY IT DIRESPECTFULLY.
yeah agreeing with the last message.. stop stereotyping guys. lol. not everyone is going to make dirty jokes or try to hold your hand. the biggest thing you should look for is respect, and that he is nice to you. cause really, other than that, what else can you want from a guy at the beginning...?
I think if a guy likes you he'll be touchy-feely or he'll like keep "accidentally" bumping into you just to touch you.
I also think a guy will play stupid when he's around you looking like a fool but he just really wants to impress you.
Guys will also act hard when there around a girl they like or over protective of you.
you'll know that a guy likes if he starts following you wherever you go and always making eye contact
he'll find any way possible to glance at you three times a day or stare at you a lot. if you catch him in the act he might prolong the gaze(if he's not shy) and other times he'll turn away until you stop looking at him and if you look at the corner of your eyes you will find him taking another glance at you again.
He looks at you a lot and then turns away quickly or lookin down is a good sign, he may "accidentally" bump into you. His pupils dialate when he talks to you. When you talk to him he seems to be hanging on to every word...
you will know that a guy likes you when he loves to play with your hair and really annoys you that much... repeat those words you asked them even their not at all funny!!!
he'll use the any excuse to touch you.. like if you're wearing a necklace he'll move closer and grab it to "look at the necklace" or he'll play with a tie on your shirt or a ring.. anything to get close to you
he play fights with you
when he's talking to you he'll touch your arm or put his hand on your shoulder
he always makes eye contact with you.. even when you're not talking he'll just look at you and smile.. and he can't stop smiling
he says stupid things to keep the conversation going
he'll tease you playfully
if you're going to the movies he'll choose a scary movie over a comedy or anything else.. scary movies are an excuse to cuddle :p
One sure fire that you can tell if a guy likes you or not is. If you are in a bad mood he will try anyhing to make you smile. Also he will try and get close to you even when you are crowds away. Or at least he will try and catch your eye.
I've found out that if a guy likes you, he'll act nervous around you sometimes or always try to be around you.
he might act slightly jealous when you're talking to or about another guy...and then he'll want to know ALL about him so he can try and work out if he's got competition. and i agree with the whole teasing and play fighting thing, and if he accidentally hurts your or annoys you he'll be really sorry and use it as and excuse to get a hug, lol. overall, he'll be nice to you and make you feel good :)
I think one of the ways that guys do show us they like us is... to be mean to us.. you know like they did in grade school. I have a guy right now that is sooooo arguemenative with me, just for no reason. Just to argue... He comes over to me at work and picks at me, for no reason. He is always looking at me. I will look at him, he will look at me, then smile. He is just one of those guys that is just like a little kid. PICK and be MEAN. Several people have said if they didn't know better they would swear we were married!!! We fight like an old married couple. He says I frusterate him, and vise versa. Its crazy! But I know he likes me. He just can't admit it. Some guys are that way, you know if he likes you if he throws rocks at you... LOL or pulls your hair, LOL anyway. Thats just one way to tell...
if he says 'hi' to you, multiple times, and its just to get your atention. he enjoys you looking at him.
Guys will find any excuse to touch you. Like if they point at something in the distance they will grab your arm. They also pretend to fight with you by pushing you or teasing you. If the guy makes you upset, he will comfort you and try to get a hug out of it (again, physical contact). If a guy likes you he will always look you in your eyes and find any reason to talk to you even if the subject is silly.
i think he likes you if he comes up and talks to you even though he doesn't sit with you alsomt evryday. and when your in a group his attention is almost always on you(example: he says hi 2 you first then 2 evryone else or he doesn't even say ot to them! or he realizes that he's been focusing all his attention on you and then quickly says something to someelse to try and cover it up.)
Another sign is being mean (yep) this could be comments about your height,age,hair etc. example you could be short so he might make mean comments about it. or playful mean like a water fight or something .
touching; if he touches you he might try and make up some lame excuse to do so . or he might not he might stand extra close to you and lean on you and kind of bump shoulders with you, of course you don't mind lol when its just the 2 of you you can have a good conversation if you just feel relaxed around him its a good sign and finally looking at you then smiling/turning away quick is a good sign.
Signs that a guy likes you is that yes, they make a lot of eye contact and usually will not turn their head when you look at them to create that crazy feeling smile between you too. I think a guy trys several different ways to say they like you if they don't know which way to apporach you from. My guy friend and I are always at a loss for words, we know each other well and we have been there and done that several years ago. Take it slow don't rush.. these are the best part of falling in love!! "The Signs" But don't go to slow they may run away casue your not bitting back.
If a guy really likes you he will gaze at you until you look his way, and then he'll either quickly turn away or smile at you(it depends on whether he's shy or not). Also, he'll always be looking for excuses to get closer to you or be where you are. It'll be pretty obvious. Trust me, you'll know if he likes you.
NOT EVERY GUY IS THE SAME. EVERYONE HAS DIFF WAYS OF SHOWING HIS FEELINGS. one might fetch things for you, carry things for u, sit with you at lunch, laugh at your jokes. My ADVICE: if you are a girl, you KNOW if a guy lieks you or not. DONT MAKE A PRO-CON LIST out of it.
I know, this is stereotypical, but DONT EVER ASK A GUY OUT!!!... let him know you like him, but DONT ASK HIM OUT. that gives him waaayyy too much of an EGO BOOST. let him know what you feel,a nd let HIM take it from there.. I know this helps.. AND PLS.. don't change for a guy. worst thing you can DO. same with guys: don't change for sm dumb girl.
When there is a crowd of his friends or people around you he will wait until everyone leaves or he will hesitate to leave until he gets you on your own so he can talk to you. Also eye contact is a big clue. He'll be really nice to you or compliment you.
I think you know when a guy likes you when he stares at you from across the lunch room and when you look at him he quickly turns his head . Also when your sitting right beside him in homeroom and he purposely moves his arm so it is right up next to yours and dose'nt move it away .you defenetly know when you drop stuff in the hallway and he always picks it up for you .
You can never know for sure. Take a chance, ask if they do or ask them out, and if they say "No", what's the worst that coudld happen!?!? (thanks to my friend Ker for that one). If your like me, you'll come up with some story about how you'll be living in a shack with thousands of cats by the age of 21. But in reality, everyone has let downs from time to time. Just think, if he says "Yes", aren't the pros that come along with the little word worth the risk?
I don't really have anything to add that hasn't already been covered..but if a guy is shy, he will try to be near you, but wait for you to say something before he has the courage to talk. He might seem visibly nervous. With some guys, you can tell. With the other less obvious ones, the biggest sign is usually that they'll do something for you even if you're just joking around about it. But hey- that's just from my own experience.
I think the most abious thing is that he will look at you alot and he'll try to be around you as much as possible. Just give it time love sweet girl!!=).
when guys are around you and you dont really know they like you,they will ask for hugs or high fives.they will some times make nasty jokes that invole you in it..:o (if you know what i meen)but they are always trying to be funny around you.they always look for you after school or befor of even during.
Boys are so honest well if ur me but the guy I like is so so so honest.and I really really like him but his way of showing he likes is that if you write a note and ask him do u like me he will write maybe maybe so i ask him again he says yea so i feel cool so really why dont u JUST ASK HIM and he will apreciate ur honesty and if he likes u he likes u but there is a guy just for u!!!
a guy likes you if he notices alot of things about you like your outfits,hair,jewlrey etc.
He'll ask for your number.....
He will stand really close and tall when he is talking to you.......
If a guy likes you, he will show interests in your interests. He will not compliment you to your face as much as he does to your friends. He will always want you to make the first move - believe me i know this from past experience. I, too would never ask a guy out but i do think that all you lasses have to be abit bold and daring and put yourself out there. Show your true worth...by showing a bit of self confidence ..in turn, he will become confident enough to ask you out.
The king of all signs is that a guy will worry about you so much when your ill. He will always ask about you and make sure you get well soon.
I think if you tell a guy you like him and he says he just likes you as a friend then that could mean two things. 1.He could just be shy or surprised and not want to admit it, because he's embarrased or another reason like that. One way to tell is that he stills sometimes hangs around you. He may joke around and say -/+ things about himself. That means he just wants to impress you or get your attention. 2.He could really NOT like you. If you really think this so, you'll most likely know. He won't pay much attention to you. He may say hi a few times, but he may also be friendly but not over friendly.
All guys are different and you never know what they are thinking. Guys are strange and absurb, but follow your heart and you may find Mr.Right.
If he likes you, then he gives you special attention, being totally oblivious to everyone else in the room. U feel like the only person in the world that matters. when u talk, he just gazes into ur eyes..takes special interest in you & your little matters, also gives u utmost respect, looks at you after everything he says to see how u react, and when u look at him, he looks away smiling.he'll try to show off his physical strength, by lifting something or someone heavy, and then looks at you to see if he's impressed you. also, he'll try to defend you when someone makes fun of you.
Listen to ur instinct.. You'll just know if he likes you.
2006-11-24 03:09:05 · answer #1 · answered by DaManFromTheMoon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he likes you as a friend and he probably does have a thing for you. he is probably just too nervous or shy to ask you out. if he is hangin out with you instead of his friends at times at school then he has to have a thing for you. dont give up. if hes acting the way you say he is then theres a big chance that he definitely has a thing for you. but if you have a suspicion that hes gay then i would drop the relationship immediately!
2006-11-24 11:05:30 · answer #2 · answered by Nathan S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I PERSONALY THINK HE LIKES U. A COUPLE OF COVERSATION STARTERS MIGHT BE
HEY ONE OF MY FRIENDS TOLD ME U LIKE ME AND I WAS WONDERING IF IT WAS TRUE...
u could just be straight up with him and say I HAVE A (INSERT SIZE HERE) CRUSH ON U
if u really like him you guys could find out what u have in common for instance if u both like basketball you could go to a basketball game(as friends for now) and slowly take it from there.
2006-11-24 11:13:05 · answer #3 · answered by fozey0 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest that you start with a topic of conversation that interests him....Basketball!
2006-11-24 11:01:22 · answer #4 · answered by dragunov 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
learn a little about basketball but also ask him if he would be interested in learning a little about you then just keep it mellow, not issues
2006-11-24 11:04:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he'll really like you if you show up butt naked on his doorstep with a bow around you neck!
2006-11-24 11:03:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he has dough spank his butt and say baby i love you gimme cash and me be so horny me love you long time $$$$$
2006-11-24 11:12:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
too long, cant read it
2006-11-24 11:00:42 · answer #8 · answered by Rocklander 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋