2006-11-24 02:57:42 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wtf u love him and u cheat? Well i dont know the details about why u cheated but if u do love him, I have not idea how the hell you could get him back cause if I was your b/f I probably wouldnt wanna know
2006-11-24 03:03:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, ask yourself why you told him... Did you tell because you thought it would relieve your conscience? If you learned from your mistake and you are SURE it won't happen again, you shouldn't have told him. If you think it could happen again, maybe it's best you don't stay together anyway. Learn from this... examine why it happened, and deal with that issue. It may have been a one night mistake. If you actually cared about this other guy, you probably aren't ready to commit to your current guy. We all make mistakes, and we all need to forgive others and ourselves. Don't be too hard on yourself... if it's meant to be, he'll forgive you and come back. If not, he'll move on and so will you... hopefully wiser :o) Good luck!
2006-11-24 11:05:56 · answer #2 · answered by JP 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay...simple. If he loved you, and still loves you, then you need to sit down and explain that it does no good to anyone just to make a decision, because of a mistake, and stick to it. It doesn't help him. It doesn't help you. The only issue should be trust - if he honestly does not trust that you will not do it again - well, then he's right. So you would have to earn his trust. Ask him what you'd have to do to do that. If he just doesn't love you - well - not much you can do there.
2006-11-24 11:03:39 · answer #3 · answered by Jay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you cheat, you break trust. You cant force someone to give that back to you, you have to earn it. BUT he has the option of wether or not he wants to trust you again. I would just move on for now Maybe one day, he'll come back to you. You dont have to stop loving him.
2006-11-24 11:00:37 · answer #4 · answered by fan_wan :-) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u did a good job by telling him. That shows u r honest. get him a good present or do something special with him. depending on ur relationship status, u might wanna try sex. -men love that
then again u shouldnt have cheated.
-whatever. its a desision u need 2 solve.
2006-11-24 11:06:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you told him that you cheated or you really cheated???
There's a big difference there... Answer this and I'll help you get
him back...
ayskyubx@yahoo.com
2006-11-24 11:03:46 · answer #6 · answered by ayskyubx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's over just leave it alone ...lost cause you shouldn't have told him if you got away with it. Even if he does get back with you he's not going to be faithful because you broke the trust first, you scorned him
2006-11-24 11:10:37 · answer #7 · answered by Great one 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you made the mistake now you have to live with it.
Cheating on somebody breaks their trust, diminishes all respect for you, and can put their health at risk. it is hard to recover from that sort of damage.
2006-11-24 11:05:45 · answer #8 · answered by smedrik 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You told him to make yourself feel better, now you are both paying the price for that... you've probably lost him.
2006-11-24 11:00:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once that trust is violated,you probably won't.There is always a chance I guess good luck.
2006-11-24 11:01:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋