im in love?

Question

im in love and i wanna know what i can do to get her to realize im he right guy for her shes been telling me she liked me and stuff but shes worried im not right for her and everytime she explains her "dream guy" she explains me she likes me but shes worried about getting hurt shes been hurt a bunch of times in her past what can i do to get her to realize i wont hurt her and let her know im right for her?

Answer 1

honestly, you cant. it is impossible to make some realize that. all you can do is give her the feeling of comfort. if she can trust you, then she will think that you would never hurt her. you have to make her feel safe with you. its hard so good luck.

Answer 2

Love isn't something you can just throw around. Love is Love. When you look up the definition in the dictionary, it isn't just a word, not just something celebrated by getting candy on a certain day out of the year. It's much bigger then that. Just be there for her. Don't pressure her into loving you back, and don't overwhelm her with the fact that you feel so deeply for her. Just be there, and she'll know you care.

Answer 3

Its really a lie to say you won't hurt her.

Love almost always hurts too sometimes. If you care its gonna hurt some too. I'm sure thats true.

Tell her you will try to not hurt her and maybe help heal some past hurts. Thats all anyone should expect, at best.

Answer 4

Do I Creep You Out
by Al Yankovic


Lyrics:

I know that you don't know me very well
We've barely met, but I can surely tell
No one will ever love you like I do

I like to feel the warm spot on your chair
Sometimes I drool and usually I stare
My precious one
I saved that gum that you threw in the garbage

You're the one I dream about
But the only question with me now is
Do I creep you out?

Everytime I shake your hand now
Wanna stick your fingers in my mouth
Do I creep you out?

Call you every night and hang up, whoa, up
Gonna carve your name in my leg
In my leg

Something I should ask about
Can I sniff the pit stains on your blouse?
And do I creep you
Do I creep you out?

Your restraining order's out
Still the only question with me now (oh, the only question)
Is do I creep you out? (is do I creep you out?)

Know exactly where you live now
Followed you from work back to your house
(Followed you from work back to your house)
Well, do I creep you out?
Do I creep you out?

Answer 5

hi that's tough.ok the best i can give you is talk to her as much as you can tell her your dreams let her know you know what you wont in life ...an with a woman its the little things in life like roses open a door hold her hand kiss her in a restraint but don't smother her

Answer 6

In the famous words of my son's Japanese best friend (when my son was pining for a silly girl,

"forget girl; girl no good".

The girl is silly and a romantic dreamer. Quit wasting your time. When you start paying attention to other girls she will either see she is being silly or let you get on with your life.

Play it cool.

Answer 7

Tell her straight how u feel ~ if u dont u mite regret it more than if u 2 give it ago

Answer 8

I only have one advice for you: Be there for her everytime.

Answer 9

be yourself, be there for her whenever you can. take her out for a drink or something...let her know your not like the others

Answer 10

be with her would mean?????>>>>dont get too close with her tht she should feel suffocated , nor too far tht she would feel u were just being around.it should be BE WITH HER IN TIMES WHEN SHE NEEDS SOMEONE( A SURROGATE LOVER)most...............