ok he spends all his time on his computer and i'm expected to cook and clean i've threatened to leave he tells me he doesnt care so i pack my things....then he tells me things will change but they never do should i leave
2006-11-24 02:44:21 · 10 answers · asked by meow 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah Girl Dont be wasting your time on that boy if he always on the computer their are other fish in the sea
2006-11-24 02:49:00 · answer #1 · answered by HeRe i Stand 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure u don't give empty threats. People always promise things will change when they are put in that position. You need to honestly sit down with him, without threats, just tell him how u feel.........lonely, ignorned etc and tell him what he could do to make it better between u. After that if he doesn't change, u know he won't. Actions speak way louder than words. Sometimes u have to physically leave in order for them to see what they are missing. Good luck
2006-11-24 10:49:26 · answer #2 · answered by Amber 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can either except him right now for who is, or you can try staying for the next 10 years, and realize nothing has changed..........except one thing! What you ask?.................................Well it is that you have used up 10 years of your life on someone who never wanted to try and change in the first place. I was in a similar way as yourself, but I was married for 12 years hoping he would change! So "Yes", leave his sorry *** while you are young.Then when you are ready, and if you still want to find someone find someone who respects you ,and your feelings. It worked for me!
2006-11-24 10:55:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you tried talking to him? talk to him and if he decides not to change, then yes, you should leave. you will find someone who treats you better than that. you do alot for him and it sounds like he doesnt do much for you. but first you should sit down and really talk to him.
2006-11-24 10:49:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya i unerstan y u iz like dis i see an u b calln me out an all dat but wutza he shood leave U
2006-11-27 20:26:44 · answer #5 · answered by pe l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get seperate houses and see eachother once a week
2006-11-24 11:40:13 · answer #6 · answered by carrot top 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! Right now!! And don't come back, ever!!!
2006-11-24 10:49:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea guys dont knoe what they had until its gone
2006-11-24 10:46:47 · answer #8 · answered by Nena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes,leave!!!! THINGS WON'T CHANGE!
2006-11-24 10:47:31 · answer #9 · answered by Caterina C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please do. he seems like he's taking you for granted.
2006-11-24 10:47:34 · answer #10 · answered by thatsoundssowrong 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋