This guy and I seemed to hit it off from the very beginning. I really liked him so I opened my heart to him and he seemed to be doing the same for me. We never slept together, but the time we did spend together was to me, very intimate, and fulfilling.
We never labeled our relationship, but he would still talk about the future things we could do together - like traveling - and I saw that as a sign that he saw us spending more time together.
Then, all of a sudden, his phone calls got shorter and less frequent. I was so distraught that I decided to confront him once and for all to determine whether he saw our relationship going anywhere b/c I didn't want to fall for him even more when he had no interest in me. But that confrontation never happened. He said he was willing to meet with me, but he never called me back. I don't want to be "psycho-chick" so I stopped calling him, but I left him an email telling him I was hurt and of course, he still hasn't responded.
What should I do?
2006-11-24 02:43:45 · 9 answers · asked by Krysta 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I suggest that you let him drift out of your life. As much as we all need closures and explanations, we can't force someone to give it to us (even if we deserve it) I think you should send him one, last, final e-mail, tell him youre not angry, you're not expecting an apology but you deserve an explanation and a closure so you can get on with your life, tell him he can reply whenever he's ready. Right now, don't dwell on it, he's probably not dwelling on you, so, you just move on, find someone else and be happy.
2006-11-24 02:52:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie there are two things you need to do: First - stop seeing this guy or any man for that matter in a negative light. Second - be happy with who you are with or without a man.
Then there are two reasons why he has backed off. You may have gotten a little emotional and that freaked him out. Alternatively, he may just be too plain busy at the moment to get back to you. However, in all honesty when a guy withdraws he usually isn't interested.
If you do see him again, or decide to text or mail him, be nice chat to him like you were never upset with him.
2006-11-24 11:03:28 · answer #2 · answered by Gillian003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he maybe wanted you to put out and since it sounds like you didnt then he is out of there. or if you did then he is out of there for now and he will call you back when needed. or he maybe just afraid of getting close to you. but in either case rejection is hard to swallow so give your self a break and let it go. move on whith yourself. you are worth so much more than this one dude ya know. dont get all caught up in the moment of feeling hopeless and down cuz this dude. forget about it. just go enjoy life and let the others see this beautiful gal waiting to be approached. :)
2006-11-24 10:52:19 · answer #3 · answered by beachgirl90 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, honey. Sounds like he found someone else or just isn't interested in you anymore. It's heartbreaking, I know, but you are doing the right thing by not harassing him. You are proving that you are classier and so many more guys will appreciate that quality.
2006-11-24 10:47:12 · answer #4 · answered by Kimberly H 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Turn the tables around stop contacting him and go out have fun with out him. I know you care for him but play his game. See if he does anything. If he doesn't keep going out and you will meet a guy that is better.
2006-11-24 11:04:24 · answer #5 · answered by george 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
move on...nothing else to do. you made every effort to talk to him about it without coming off as physco...he didnt respond. leave it alone and move on
2006-11-24 10:48:31 · answer #6 · answered by Get_R_Done_n_Dallas 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Busy yourself with other things and do you best to forget the jerk...
2006-11-24 10:48:24 · answer #7 · answered by Dirtydog 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should forget him,,,move on
2006-11-24 10:49:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know him. He's married.
2006-11-24 10:48:12 · answer #9 · answered by kl__ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋