there is this boy i know that is really nice, smart, funny, and cute. he is also one of my friends. he always talks to me and sometimes he doodles on my things...you know like writing his name and drawing smileys. well how do i know if he likes me too? i have a major crush on him. plz help, preferably from experience. if not i dont care im desperate.!.!.!.
2006-11-24 02:34:42 · 23 answers · asked by Niki V 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The best way to go about this is to ask a mutual friend to find out who he likes... Just make sure that the person you ask doesn't tell the boy you like that you like him, or that you want to know who he likes... Otherwise he might be embarassed and lie about it...
Just remember that he may *not* like you... I do say this to be mean, but to have you ready for the chance of a let down... I know its a bummer when you really like someone and they don't like you back, but trust me - if this doesn't work out then someone else will come along (Just be sure that letting this person know you like them does not ruin your friendship)
2006-11-24 02:38:30 · answer #1 · answered by C.G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can do this by asking him to go do more often and you can do little things with him more then you did with other people and if he is okay with being with you then when you and him spend a little more time with each other then you can bring up this part that is killing you and just hope he is feeling the same thing let him know you like him more then just a friend and he will either say cool and he will to take it to the next stage or not. Good luck
2006-11-24 10:40:34 · answer #2 · answered by isitreal1963 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im gonna have to say that it sounds like he does like you. But if I were you I would just straight up ask him. Hey do like me more than a friend? Thats the easiest way to find out. But the most stressful for you. But once asked you'll feel better.
2006-11-24 10:38:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be frank with him.Develope a good friendship with him which is really very important. Then you can gradually ask him about his interest in girls, what kind of girls he prefers,etc.The trick is to gain his trust ad confidence.Then he will share his intimate things with you.Then you can gradually tell him about your interest in him and if he gets the signal then there is no stopping.
2006-11-24 10:48:49 · answer #4 · answered by Lexi_leavin a mark behind. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, you have nothing to lose. Its a fact. If you do nothing, then you won't have him. If you do something and he's not interested, then you wont have him either. If he is interested, you're in. But he's definitely not going to change his mind just because you made a move, one way or the other. He's either interested or not - just ask him.
2006-11-24 10:58:30 · answer #5 · answered by Jay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm 37 so I've been around a bit. Have you tired touching him or kiss him on the cheek. Has he made a pass at you? Lori
2006-11-24 10:37:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One major sign is if he is with a lot of his friends and gets away from them to talk to you. Another is if he stares at you and is always complementing something about you. Another is if he is always touching you for no reason.
2006-11-24 10:39:16 · answer #7 · answered by The Jake 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him oportunites to get physical with you. Tickle fights, wrestling, taking things from him and making him tussle to get it back. If he likes you he'll get bolder about touching you each time. bada bing bada bam
Or
Write him a note and ask him straight up
Or
Drop stuff (accidentaly lol) and see if he picks it up for you
2006-11-24 10:40:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's either gay or he likes you. I would never have had the guts to do something like myself to a girl I liked at your age, but I'd say you are safe in taking things further.
2006-11-24 10:37:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say he likes you or he would be making fun of you or just completely ignoring you.
If you want to find out for sure tell him that you are going to the mall to see a movie and invite him along,"not as a date" just say hey I'm going to the mall to see ???? movie want to meet me or us there?
2006-11-24 10:39:38 · answer #10 · answered by railcar_exp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋