I broke up with my girlfriend on September 09 and every day since then, I can't stop thinking about her. Were "friends" but it's hard for me to continue with my life thinking of her everyday. What should I do?
2006-11-24 02:31:24 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its never easy getting over someone after a break up especially if the feelings for them were strong. But over time it does get easier. I hope evrything works out for you. just be patient and remember at least you have her as a friend still. you could have lost her all the way.
2006-11-24 02:41:49 · answer #1 · answered by crazy b 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-06 02:12:39 · answer #2 · answered by Pamala 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of the reasons why you are not together anymore. Go out with friends, start enjoying life with them. Everytime she pops into your head try and stay focused and think of the reasons why you broke up. It takes time you know, and it will get easier. Try not to feel depressed, these things happen for a reason and there are thousands of people in your situation. You're not alone, loads of people break up, its a part of life. There are thousands of people out there who right now are feeling exactly like you do. Just give yourself some time.
2006-11-24 02:41:56 · answer #3 · answered by Soph 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, stop being friends, stop talking to her. Its probably aggravating your emotions as it is. Second, I would find other activities away from her to occupy your time and hang with friends that arent going to mention her. I would also do something for yourself, bulk up, look better, or whatever. It will make you feel better becuase you will get attention from other girls and the pain will be less. When you have become calm enough to not care what she does or who she is with, only then can you MIGHT be friends with her. Or you may prefer by that time to not be friends at all.
2006-11-24 02:36:22 · answer #4 · answered by bluestar_dreamsx 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take a break from each other. No phone calls, no emails and no meeting. Set a time to have diner or coffee and then see if the feelings are still there. Hopefully the feelings have subsided.
2006-11-24 02:35:48 · answer #5 · answered by coolsitesguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out and move on with your life as soon as possible. Get back into your old routine and friends. But don't find another girl to fast take your time and start lining the girls you like up.
We all go through this at one time or another. Stick it out and be strong when you are week and week when you are strong.
2006-11-24 02:36:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a hobby, get new friends, get out on the town more, date other girls, but stop wallowing in the past. Remember you broke up with her for a reason, just keep trying to remember what it was.
2006-11-24 02:33:41 · answer #7 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was in a very familiar situation... me and my ex G/F split on Sept 29, 3 months ago, (4 year relationship) i kept in contact with her, fort we could stay friends blah blah.... neway, i month ago i told her that i didn't want to hear/see from her... etc.. since then i have really started moving on with my life, everything is going great, im going on a 3rd date with this one girl tomorrow yay...!!
So my advice would be to, chill out with friends, go party, start exercising you feel loads better (i started swimming twice a week) and start to meet new people.. go out on dates, nuffin serious just go have FUN !!!!!! stop all contact with her, the reason your thinking about her, is because you are constantly reminded of her, txts/emails/whatever...
Remember you dont need sumone to make you feel happy, you must of been happy before you met the girl...
leave the past in the past...
2006-11-24 02:55:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to assess the reasons for the break-up. If they were legitimate concentrate on those and time will take care of the rest. If they were not, talk about getting back together.
2006-11-24 02:36:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just relax, or, you can always have a sport or hobby that can keep your mind off of her until you completely get over her.
To get over my nasty break up, I hung out with alot of different people, and made plenty of new guy-friends.
Good Luck.
xoxo
Maddi
2006-11-24 02:36:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋