I have a huge problem with my guys babys mom she keeps sending him photo's of herself and im getting really pissed off and i get mad at my boyfriend am i wrong for feeling this way?
2006-11-24 01:54:43 · 10 answers · asked by lisa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my boyfriends babys mom she keeps sending photos to his phone of her and also sent nude photos to his phone and me and him live 2 gether so she is doing it to mess with me, i really want to beat her up but im constantly being asked to be the bigger person,when this happens i get angry but not only at the situation but at him
2006-11-24 02:09:51 · update #1
what should i do
2006-11-24 02:11:29 · update #2
no you don't have a problem. but when you get mad. cool off first before talking about it with your boyfriend.
2006-11-24 01:56:05 · answer #1 · answered by Grasshopper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are definately titled to feel this way! But, if the mother is the only one doing such activity, dont be mad at your boyfriend, just talk to him about this situation and ash him to tell her not to send such photos because of how you feel. But, if the pics are tasteful and not only of her, but the baby, then she has a right to do so, but other than that, just tell your boyfriend, and mother might I add, how you feel and how to take action. gl!
2006-11-24 01:58:08 · answer #2 · answered by cul8rhote 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quick answer, don't get mad at him he didn't send them, she did. Women are ruthless, if she can't stand to see him with somebody else she will do whatever it takes to ruin his life. On the other hand he also needs to tell her to stop sending pictures like that to him. He needs to be respectfully firm in both, expressing they are no longer any sort of a romantic item, and that he has a strong desire to move on and try to build a new life with somebody else. If he is leading her on then get mad at him, otherwise the fault lies with the mother.
2006-11-24 02:03:39 · answer #3 · answered by Chance702 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you're not wrong, she's an ex of his, and he shouldn't accept any photos from her, or have anything to do with her, yes she can come visit the baby, but she can't keep on sending pics of her.
2006-11-24 01:58:00 · answer #4 · answered by superboredom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd say how you feel is very natural. i mean, why does she have to send him her photos when they're not together anymore, right? be true to yourself, to your feelings. don't feel guilty that you feel that way. what you do about it, though, is another story. don't let jealousy cloud your judgment. it's not your boyfriend's fault that she's sending him pictures. if he's not doing anything to encourage it, it will eventually stop, i guess.
2006-11-24 02:08:50 · answer #5 · answered by minnacenter 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You are right to get uncomfortable. The question is whether she is doing this deliberately to annoy you. You can politely decline seeing those pictures. He can hopefully keep them in his pocket or whatever.
2006-11-24 01:57:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him, hes the only one that can stop accepting these pics from him. Unless the pics include the baby then there is nothing you can do.
2006-11-24 01:57:15 · answer #7 · answered by krystal c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be proud that she does that. Obviously she is competing because she sees you as more beautiful than her. Take it as a compliment and let your bf see it doesn't bother you. This makes her look desperate
2006-11-24 01:58:18 · answer #8 · answered by Tzvi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. He has a responsibility to his first family.
2006-11-24 02:08:29 · answer #9 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not wrong. totaly understandable that you feel this way. you need ot be form and tell him to talk to her abou it. she needs to understand thats its over between them and that hes with you now.
2006-11-24 01:57:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋