I met a girl a few weeks ago at a party and have seen her a few times since, last week i saw her at another party and ended up getting her number. I called on tue and arranged a date for yesterday but she text me yesterday morning saying she could not make it cos of work (which is cool) and asked if we could go out another time, i replied and asked when she was free saying that i am free until sunday. This was at 10:30am yesterday and I have had no response yet. Do i text her again or wait to hear from her.
2006-11-24 01:42:04 · 18 answers · asked by bishbashbosh11 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nope... she is giving you the brush off... she has your number.. leave her to make the next move... if you hear nothing in a few days she's just not interested- it's her loss!
2006-11-24 01:44:19 · answer #1 · answered by LadyTraveller 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd wait - the ball is in her court. She may not be very interested, in which case you would look a bit desperate, but equally, she may be really really busy at work and many texts could annoy her.
Also, I find texting a bit odd as you can go back and forth without resolving anything. Why don't you phone her tomorrow and ask if she wants to go out tomorrow night (Sat) as you are now booked up on Sunday. See what she says. You will hopefully get an idea of what's going on!
2006-11-24 01:47:22 · answer #2 · answered by xaulleo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand the obsession with texting. She gave you her number so just call her. You'll know faster if she's interested or not.
I met someone at a party once and I didnt even get her number. But she told me which company she worked for so I just called the main switchboard and asked for her! We're now married with kid on the way!
2006-11-24 03:13:11 · answer #3 · answered by bw_r005t3r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her what you really want to know. if you feel she is blowing you off, then call her and explain why you feel that way.if shes says no she is just really busy then you got your answer. if she doenst want to go out with you then you dont have to waste your time on her anymore. BUT at least you know what you want to know. whats the worst that she can say? shes not interested? OK no big deal. sitting around wondering and waiting for her to call is going to be worse then you asking her and her telling you the truth.either way once you ask her you get the answer regardless of what it is!!
2006-11-24 01:51:11 · answer #4 · answered by cole 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait till sunday and text to say are you still on for that date ask her out straight i wish people would just say if they are interested in going on dates instead of making excuses would make life easier.
2006-11-24 01:44:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Up to you.
You could text her again and if she doesnt reply then dont contact her again and put ut down to experience.
Or, lose your chance with this girl.
In my opinion, give her one last text. YOu sound like you really like her so whats the harm in it?
2006-11-24 01:44:41 · answer #6 · answered by Leiani 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait if she wants to see you she will call don't be desperate sounds like you might meet her at a party again then ask her if she is just messing you about
2006-11-24 01:52:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait.
2006-11-24 01:44:35 · answer #8 · answered by Barry G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its up to u.
U might wanna txt her back or wait for her to call u. If u wait for sometime and she didn't call bck the u can call her to know whats up with her.
2006-11-24 02:19:53 · answer #9 · answered by teemah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait always wait....Don't ever ever seem needy......
If she doesn't respond there's a reason.
Believe me when a girl starts to hook up a guy she likes she doesn't forget to call him back.
Just wait and see
Good luck
2006-11-24 01:55:36 · answer #10 · answered by tsostler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋