i have never dated a girl before or even looked at one like i do her.please help!!!! im confused
2006-11-24 01:37:35 · 12 answers · asked by douwana514 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no you are not gay. there will always be times like this when you will be confused by friendship over attraction. just let it go.
2006-11-24 01:39:24 · answer #1 · answered by Grasshopper 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is to actually confront him about your sexuality tell him your gay and then you'll see whether or not he really is a good friend or not.If he says your a freak then you'll know his true colours b\c even if you were gay a real friend wouldnt care. Confront him that your gay and see how that goes, if all goes well then give it time once everythings settled in and its settled within him that your gay then tell him how you feel about him and see how that works. Its no good holding your feelings inside they just worse trust me I am and Im sure many others out there are living witnesses of it. Good luck and I hope all goes well. If everything doesnt go well then move on, you deserve better and their are plenty fish in the sea and you'll find your happiness whatever you do.
2016-03-29 07:28:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
During adolecent years, you experiment and try different things. When I was 16, I thought I was in love with my best friend, and we secretly dated for about 6 months. Thats been over 5 years ago now, and I am strictly stick to guys. Me and my friend are still best pals, but it just didn't work out that way to make me want to hop over the fence. So I don't call myself gay or bi since I have been with a girl before. Its just one of those things that kinda happen. The best thing you could do, is kinda talk to her not just straight forward, but kinda hint around about things.
2006-11-24 01:44:21 · answer #3 · answered by **baby~doll** 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It doesnt mean that you are gay.Having someone to confide your secrets and problems to is a very good thing to have.It makes you close to that person,just like it should be in a love-relationship.
Often the feelings of love for your friend translate into a lover-like feeling.I mean,who could understand those problems or secrets like a member of the same sex?
Dont worry about it,Its common.If later you should find out that your feelings for this friend are of a different nature,go for it.
2006-11-24 01:47:18 · answer #4 · answered by crow lover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not gay, but maybe curious. it may be a phase, it may be who you really are. Life is about discovery of ourselves every day. If she is your best friend, sit down and talk to her, be honest. If you two are that close, she will be understanding and help you get thru this one way or another
2006-11-24 01:41:26 · answer #5 · answered by Lewis 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First how does she feel about the possibility of having sex with you? Talk to her and if she is willing then do it if that is what you want. You could still have sex with guys and enjoy it. Doing it with both is ok if everyone is willing. Have fun!
2006-11-24 01:42:22 · answer #6 · answered by unionjack07 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you are falling in love? Perhaps this feeling that you have is the common jealousy and love we have to our best friends. If you are sure that you have fallen for her... then you must think seriously about it! Get over it...! Because you will hurt your feelings and your friend...
2006-11-24 01:47:00 · answer #7 · answered by venus_ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gurl or boy it does mean your gay but not literly. you just like the way she looks & acts. thats y u lik hr u admire
2006-11-24 01:42:22 · answer #8 · answered by ~*BabyB*~ 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, you just wish that you could find the same qualities in someone.
2006-11-24 01:40:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are willing to actually do gay things with her, that is gay.
2006-11-24 01:42:21 · answer #10 · answered by hankthecowdog 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋