I am alone ... can any one help?

Question

Recently my girl friend got married with some one else just becoz of money.

she is now happy in her world but now I am feeling alone in this world. We have 3 year of good relationship and I always understand her feeling, but still she left just becoz of money and status.

I am 27 right now and doesnt know what to do NEXT?
Shall I search for a new one? or keep myself away from all this.

ashish

Answer 1

look for a new one- just because she did that it doesnt mean u cant go after another girl- i hope u find all the love u need

Answer 2

Hey Ashish,

I am so sorry. It looks like YOU had 3 years of good relationship. She obviously wanted something else out of life. Don't beat yourself for not being the wealthy one. Would you rather be loved for money or the man you are? You are still young, your story is far from over. Learn from this, take the time to heal, and let life take its course. There is no searching to do, I believe. The one meant for you will come your way when the time is right. Enjoy your life in the meantime. I wish I could make your hurt go away but I can't. I can't make my own go away! I think we just have to keep on going. There's so much more to life, don't ever think it ends with one thing or another, one person or another.

Hang in there, easy on the ashish and take great care!

L.

Answer 3

Has the world come to an end?? Why are you so morose? Just think, that girl was after money and status...to some extent she was practical. These days money is power, while LOVE is just an emotion.She chose a comfortable life. Instead of feeling lonely try to make your life better, If u are studying, study hard, complete your studies, try hard to get a good job by acquiring useful degrees. Love after all is an emotion...hardships in life makes one feel miserable...Be friendly with girls...but be focussed on your career and job. Practical approach to life imakes it a successful life. Come out of your cocoon, mix up with freinds and live life. When your girlfriend didnt consider your feelings then why are you crying? Will she come back?? dont waste your time.

Answer 4

I was also in the same state few months before. Now I am happy and peaceful. I understand, how painful you will feel now because of your separation from your girl friend.

Please don't search for an another girl. Instead see what you love to do in your life. Do that. Be happy and self-reliant. The best girl will come to you. You don't have to put any effort.

I know, even then sometimes, you will feel lonely. At those times, come to yahoo answer. There are lot of wonderful people here who will make you feel good. Cheer up my dear friend... Smile Please :)

Answer 5

The only thing constant in life is change. Start looking for a new girlfriend. Quit dragging around, get some new clothes, lose a couple of pounds. Repackage yourself, as you are now for sale to a new girlfriend.

Answer 6

quite similar case here,me nd my gf have 5 yr of gud relationship but after that its all ends becos write now i am 17 yr old nd i need some time to establish my self[may be 10 -12 yrs]she said that i can't wait for that time nd our relationship doesnt have future.
ashish i am 17 rite now nd i know what to do NEXT.rite know i am concerntrating on my studies,just becos i want to be a sucess full,i doesnt think that now u search for a new one?there should be one aim in ur life nd that is money

Answer 7

hello ashish rakhi here.
first of all find out that she went away with someone else was only for money and status, if yes than carry on with your life as it is, cause she didnt deserve you.
start making friends or do what u feel like doing, cause life is big road to walk on and u cant walk with broken heart and allways thingkin gof her, come out of it and live ur life to the fullest.trust me i am going through the same thing but can't yet coem to the terms,. good luck to you.

Answer 8

Money is Power!

If you have money, girls will come after you! take it in good sense:-)

So my dear friend, look for a good job that suites you and forgot of all. Build up a good bank balance. Any try to fulfil your dreams in your life one by one.

Good future is waiting for you and all blessings and happiness will come automatically

All the best

Answer 9

Life is not a problem to be solved, its a mystery to be lived-Osho.
Don't take life as a problem, treat it as a mystery.Then your troubles will vanish.
If your girlfriend has left you, it might be for good,who knows?
You might get a better girl.
If you are still feeling disturbed and hence cannot concentrate on work, better consult a good doctor or psychiatrist.

Answer 10

Guy, dont be upset by girls , i am in the same boat as u be4, just take it as it is a dream and forget it ,life must still go on, there are girl that god has arraged for u.Take Care!