2006-11-24 01:20:26 · 19 answers · asked by Nandhu 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Even though she will ask you never ever want to be open about that. It is a test. Too much information about this and you could change how she looks at you.
When she asks.....and she will ask......turn it back on her and ask her why she wants to know. Demand a good answer and then change the subject.
The mind is a mysterious thing. The less we know the more we use our imagination. And if we have no reason to think bad of something we always make it better than it really is.
Don't tell her. That way she knows you won't tell about her so will be much more open.
2006-11-26 04:06:13 · answer #1 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are serious about someone full disclosure is always good. Talk about it but not in detail. She don't need to know how much you loved her or stuff like that but if you guys been places together, maybe a miscarriage....you know important things I would suggest you tell her. Females will always give you a hard time because they wanna be the only one that has captured your heart but with the right wording and patience you can assure her that she is.
Gonna give you an example of what happens when you don't talk about past relationships. Lets say she has a psycho ex and she neglects to tell you about him. And so oneday some guy approaches you, beats you down, and you are now in the hospital. When she comes to see you she finally says the guy that did this to you was her ex. I am sure the first thing you gonna say is, " Why the hell didn't you tell me about him? " Let me tell you man....KNOWLEDGE IS POWER!!!!
2006-11-24 01:42:39 · answer #2 · answered by Wordsmith 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on what you want to tell her.What happened in your past is in the past and dont see why you would feel the need to discuss this with your partner.Personally Im not interested in my partners ex and we very rarely ever mention each others ex's.the past should stay in the past
2006-11-24 01:40:21 · answer #3 · answered by knowsitallandabitmore 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this really depends on what type of person you girlfriend is. i have dated girls that wanted to know everything about my past and the girls ive dated, what they were like stuff like that, then on the other hand ive dated girls that didnt want to know anything about my past relationships....i think this is if she dont ask dont tell type thing, but if she does i would at least respect her enough to tell the truth
2006-11-24 01:25:26 · answer #4 · answered by bshelby2121 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely not! Any mention of prior girlfriends, will seem like a comparison, to the current one.
2006-11-24 01:33:59 · answer #5 · answered by Beau R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOOOOOOOOOO its the 1st thing that makes them feel u still like ur ex or dont want to b with ur present gf.......but u cn tell her bout ur past. just dont tell her bout ur lovelife or past love life
2006-11-24 01:23:43 · answer #6 · answered by Aitannaa ツ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to. Leave the past in the past. Live in the present. God bless****
2006-11-24 01:24:10 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER
not even when she asks you, if she does just talk about lightly and proceed to the next subject. why even bring it up? do you have kids with this woman? you barely have time to know/talk to each other let alone waste it with stuff like that.
2006-11-24 01:21:42 · answer #8 · answered by happybeanstalk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is a good idea to talk about your ex but don't keep talking about her everyday
2006-11-24 01:23:35 · answer #9 · answered by rrmbuck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on the way your ex-gf was acting.
and if something to tell your gf go for it
if your gf is ok about it then its fine
my bf told me about his ex-gf and figures that his ex-gf and me r frends now
2006-11-24 01:29:59 · answer #10 · answered by cristi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋