Im pregnant because of him! what should i do.?

Answer 1

You're pregnancy , unless you were raped, is not because of him. Granted he helped but honestly (and I know you'll hate me for saying this) its both your faults. I personally think the futher along u get the better you will feel about it. Although it happens everyday, giving birth is a miracle.

Answer 2

Can things work out with you both? Can you live together? Can he make a commitment? Will he take up responsibility? If it's a yes for these questions, you can begin thinking of a life together and two parents for your baby. If it is 'no' for the questions, ask these...Can I take care of the baby on my own? Who shall I go to for emotional and mental support? What do I do with the baby?Shall I keep it and love it and take care of it all my life? OR shall I give it up for adoption? If you don't want the baby, don't take away the baby's life. Have the baby and give it up to people who will give everything for your baby and give it a good life. The baby can't pay with it's life for your mistake. Things can be very confusing and frustrating at this time. Facing them squarely and dealing with them even if it causes a lot of anguish and grief is the best thing to do. When you are older, you will look back upon this and know you did right! Take care! God be with you!

Answer 3

No. Unless he raped you. But if you chose to f.u.c.k him then its your responsibility too that you are pregnant. If you r thinking of abortion, the easy way out like those fkrs around, please dont do it, it is murder. You chose to bang the wrong guy, stupid as well not to use the rubber, now u gotta make sure you dont make another mistake you will definitely fkng regret for the rest of your life.

If you're not thinking of abortion den thank God. I wish u and the baby all the best.

But i suspect you are bullshiiting. Fck U.

Answer 4

K just 2 let u know it wasn't just his fault. If u consented to having sex then it's both of ur faults for not having safe-sex. Does ur parents know? If not u should them ASAP b/c if u wait it makes ur situation worse. U should also tell the guy if he doesn't already know. If u don't want a baby then give him/her up for adoption. Abortion should not b an option y should u punish such an innocent soul as a baby for the mistakes u made!!!!GOOD LUCK AND GOD BLESS:)

Answer 5

First of all - you are pregnant because of you. If you are mature enough to have sex then you should be mature enough to take precautions if you didn't want to become pregnant. Second of all - tell him that you are pregnant. Work things out from there.

Answer 6

It takes two to get pregnant. Not just him. If you didn't want to get pregnant you could have protected yourself by being on Birth control and using condoms.

Answer 7

HOP IN SISTER..............
i'm in the same boat as you,
im about 24 wks pg and he's still in denile about it,
it ain't just a river in Egypt.......
there isn't much you can do,
so hop in the waters cold but you'll get used to it...
and if you want someone to talk to you can talk to me via email
[e-mail]
my name is stacy aight
good luck
stacy

Answer 8

this may sound harsh hun but what was your role?.. You didn't mention rape so this must of been consentual sex.. Not excusing him but YOU need to think.. its yours. you decide what gets in there, how and when... I can tell you guys DO NOT think about that much if at all.. you have to take responsibilty for what goes on too.

Answer 9

don't get an abortion!!!!!!!!! Tell him that u had so much sex ur pregnant and gotta take an easy!!! Cause if this is a guy u really love, well tell him straight out!!!!!! And u won't regret it!

Answer 10

Uhm did he rape you? If so then you can blame him. If not its 50% your fault at least. So then if him is a loser: have an abortion and dump him. I don't want my taxes to go to your illegitimate kid. If He's a stand up guy then have the kid. Unless you don't love the guy. then refer to answer for "if he's a loser".