1)She called it FWB
2)She said she "loved me" on occassions
3)She had other men but they didn't know about me, I knew about them
4)I worked with her and went on lunch with her and things
5)She used to text me at least 4 times a day even when we saw each other at work
6)I used to play with her kids and listen to her problems
7)Used to complain that the "other man" was just using her for sex (he had girlfriend)
I mean WTF! When I did tell her I felt more for her (is it any suprise from reading above), she said she loved the other men more than me. How confusing!
2006-11-24 01:13:51 · 8 answers · asked by FGDF f 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Also, we had sex
2006-11-24 01:14:14 · update #1
Friends with benefits.
She wasn't hiding anything from you. And at least she had the decency to define what you had and not leave you hanging. It was up to you to be contented being just one of the choices.
Guys do this a lot--dating several girls at a time, sort of collecting and selecting.
When a girl does such thing, the guys complain.
2006-11-24 01:18:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just as there are some guys who are not ready to commit, it is also true with some women, and this is one of them. She is meeting her needs through alot of men rather than one, and unfortunately u are just one of the men in her life and nothing more. If it is a relationship u want, then this is not the type of woman who can give it to u. Move on and find someone who will give themselves to u and only u rather than u and 5 others.
2006-11-24 01:19:57 · answer #2 · answered by Amber 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a women with some serious issues of insecurity. And you should run as far and as fast as possible away from her. In ten years she will be in the same position as she is in now. Trying to convert some unavailable (emotionally) man into her man. She will continue to choose men who are as sick as she is. She does not what a man who will love and respect her. She does not respect herself. Why would you deal with this anyway? God bless****
2006-11-24 01:18:52 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all I think it shows if she had kids then there was defendly more men then just u. But that des not mean a think i think you need to tell her "if you love me then you will give up your other men or this just wont work" Good luck
2006-11-24 01:20:45 · answer #4 · answered by michelle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she was using you big time...hope the sex was worth the trouble she put you through
2006-11-24 01:18:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is using you for her convenience than yours. She definitely has some ulterior transactions when moving with you but there is only lust & sex and no love!!!
2006-11-24 01:19:32 · answer #6 · answered by THE WORRIER 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shes crazy lol...You really need to talk to her and really find out whats going on.
2006-11-24 01:16:02 · answer #7 · answered by shartge1986 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are being used. move on. find someone who will treat you like you are their man. good luck.
2006-11-24 01:16:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋