2006-11-24 01:12:57 · 32 answers · asked by morgo030895 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him!
Women don't have the same need for sex as men. Talk to him, find a compromise. If that doesn't work... ask yourself: does he want you for yourself or only for the sex?
2006-11-24 01:17:48 · answer #1 · answered by Sue_C 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I heard an older house wife give this advice to her daughter and understand that when I later asked her if it worked she said it worked great. Remember you are capable. of more sex then he is. Therefore you have the upper hand. So what you do is give it to him and then give it to him some more then give it to him some more. The idea is to make him say NO! You can do it, when he is finished ask for more., when he says no ask why not? Don’t you find me sexy, don’t you want me, etc., Keep grabbing him and say come on honey you got me hot…etc., You can out do him and that is what you want if you have him saying no to you a few times he will be more reasonable and in addition understand you saying no and just maybe think he is about to start a fire he ain’t man enough to put out. *** I forgot something also have sex sometimes on your terms, there has got to be something he really likes like watching football, baseball a certain show etc., Grab him then come on baby, I need you, I want you., etc., Even better around the friends, say I have to borrow him a while ya'll need to go home. he is not going to turn you down as no man will turn sex down in front of another man, he misses the game, etc.,
2006-11-24 01:56:01 · answer #2 · answered by funson35111 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just because he doesn't want to have sex with you doesn't mean that he is crazy, cheat, gay or whatever. He may just want to cool it because if you were having it all the time on the hour then maybe he just needs a break from it or maybe he wants to wait for marriage or it could be a number of things. I was glad to read that you are not going to leave him if the sex isn't there thats great cause it shows that you don't want him just for sex and maybe he thought thats what you wanted from him sex only. Either way stick with him and I hope that it works out for the 2 of you.
2016-05-22 22:06:32 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only once a night... you're short changing him... poor bloke!
Only Joking.... It can be a real pain in the backside if one partner wants more than you do..
A previous girlfriend of mine wanted it continually... she would "touch-me-up" in the most inapropriate of places... in the supermarket, in a taxi, in the pub, at the dining table with friends and relatives, at work, on the plane, college, at the doctors, at the football... though I must admit it did lead to some great sex sessions!
But she eventually wore me out... it was sex from the moment I picked her up from college until I dropped her off the following morning on my way to work... She was insatiable... a walking talking orgasm...unbelievable...[most guys would think that I was crazy to end it... but it just didn't seem like love in the end... it was more of a performance - if you know what I mean?]
What you need to do is to try and wear him out as a previous respondant has said...
Other than that give him hand jobs and bj's, and allow him to watch porn and masturbate whilst you are there...
Can't think of much more because anything else might cause a breakdown in your relationship.
2006-11-24 02:09:30 · answer #4 · answered by jonti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur boyfriend's a sex addict!! Well tell him that ur tired and want to take a break for a while! like a week or 2, If he says no give him the boot, and u just gotta worry about 1 thing, if u don't have sex with him who will! He might cheat on u, So u have to make this decision!!
2006-11-24 01:17:46 · answer #5 · answered by pimp132 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just reject him and tell him that you need to take a rest. You don't have to do it if you don't feel like it. Even husbands and wives dont't do it everynight unless both parties are willing to do so.
2006-11-24 01:17:20 · answer #6 · answered by Cutebunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that u can't handle it every night and that u will tell him when u want it. Or u can play a game that u know you will most likely win at and say if he wins, u have sex one night a week or if u win then u get to have it when ever u want it.
2006-11-24 01:18:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
pending on the age, its somewhat expected for a guy to want to have sex every night.....if this is a new relationship then give it time and eventually he will begin to slow down.....do you not like having sex with him? if thats the issue then you need to leave him. if not tell him that you dont want him to get bored with you dont think you shoud have sex every night, see if he'll go for every other night, on maybe every third night....i really dont know its tough to get through to a guy...i know i am one....good luck with you problem and hope it works out for you.
2006-11-24 01:19:06 · answer #8 · answered by bshelby2121 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What the HELP!
It is your body and your right to control how it is used or what it does.
Tell himn right out enough is enough.
Is he only a boyfriend for sex or love?
If he only wants sex your heading for a bad future relationship. cll him on it now.
2006-11-24 01:18:19 · answer #9 · answered by apostle1938 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously if your sex drives aren't equal then you two need different parnters. You need an old married guy that can only get it up once a week or so, I'm kidding, not trying to be mean. Every night is great!
2006-11-24 01:21:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋