Is it over? (Ladies only)?

Question

Last weekend, I took a girl out and we just had it simple, coffee place, talked and she pretty much told me alot about herself and talked a little more than I did. She stressed she liked being in control of situations but I gathered she had an interst in me. Anyways she wanted me to call her when I got home which I did and then I called her again that week to ask her for a second date.

I ended up leaving a voice message. I left the ball in her court and I haven't heard from her since, and this was Monday. Is something wrong?

Answer 1

I wouldn't worry too much about it, at this point. This week was a holiday and she could be busy with family and shopping. Give her one more call, maybe this weekend. If you haven't heard anything back from her by next Wednesday, I would say you might have to cut your losses.

By then, you would've given her more than a week from your first date to respond to you.

Answer 2

Not necessarily. Some women still think they must make the guy wait so they don't seem to desperate. I know that when my boyfriend and I first started talking, I told him I was not looking to date anyone. But the more I got to know him the more I was interested in possibly more. Since I had made the comment of no dating, he was really confused. After two weeks of seeing him on a daily basis, he was still thinking I didn't want to date him. I finally kissed him and then he knew I wanted more than a friendship. The dating game is confusing, but you can get the confusion out of the way by just asking her. Go ahead and call her again, but be direct with what you are looking for.

Answer 3

No. Not necessarily.

She wanted to think things over first and not give you false hopes.

As for you, as hard as this may sound, do not assume anything. But if she doesn't agree on a second date, after you asking for it several times, then maybe, just maybe, she may not be into you. Is she home? Has she returned your call? How many days after the first date did you call her? Did you call her immediately?

It is highly possible that she's not home. =)

Answer 4

At times girls like to play a game and take there time calling you back because she doesn't want to seem too desperate.

Yet, she could be busy with things since this is a Holiday week. You can always call her again just to say hello and see how she is doing.

Answer 5

Its the Holiday season. She may have been busy with things. Why not wait and give it one more try on Monday? If you get no answer, then it is over. She may be busy with family and all that this week and weekend.

Answer 6

why not call again may be someone picked up ur message and forgotten to tell her or may be she got the message late and thinks the contents of the message is over .why not try again i ,for a girl to be that open with on the first date i think she might lkie u.

Answer 7

Perhaps she is busy and not available to call back. If she doesn't 't call back. So what find someone else. She did say she likes to be in control, perhaps she is the man in the relationship. God bless****

Answer 8

She's "playing hard to get" - probably likes you a lot but doesn't want to be "easy". Bide your time, she'll call back when she thinks the time is right.

I wish you luck.

Answer 9

If you really think that you could see yourself with her, call her again. but if you cant see yourself with her than wait, if she wants you she will call you back. trust me, if you dont like her as much move on and dont think about it, that way you dont stress.

Answer 10

Don't call her back. If/when she calls you back, let her know that you DO NOT appreciate her flakiness. Move on, and act uninterested. I think she will chase you down.