I'm in the tenth grade. My ex boyfriend and I dated for almost 7 months when we broke off. I feel really stupid for breaking up with him. I miss him terribly still. I thought i was over him and dated another boy during the summer. When I got back to school I saw my ex and all my feelings for him rushed back. I miss him so bad. He knows I still love him thanks to the fact my friend told him. The problem is he got a new girl friend recently. She uses him for stuff. I don't wan't to tell him to be known as the evil ex whop is looking for a reason to break them up. I think about my ex alot. it doesn't help that he hangs with me and my friends. I was crying the other day and he told me I'd get through my problem and I was strong I could make it. My friend says when he looks at me you can still see he loves me. I'm not sure. Everytime I talk to his girlfriend who I am friends with, he comes up and wraps his arms around her. Is he trying to get me jealous? Yesterday he asked for a hug. Help
2006-11-24 01:08:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He and I get along fairly well. He hugs me sometimes and has moments that show he still cares about me. A couple of weeks ago he gave me a piggyback ride. Im confused. Please help. Thanks in advance
2006-11-24 01:18:54 · update #1
he already knows I still love him. He and his new gf started dating the beginning of this month. I realized I still loved him when I saw him agian the first day of school long before she was in the picture.
2006-11-24 01:26:48 · update #2
Remember he is your ex. and he has a girlfriend. so hands off. waste no more tears on him, your friend has already told him, how you feel about him, and he has not made any effort, to come to you, so may be one day, but not right now. so move on with your life. Have some fun! their is someone out their for you!
2006-11-24 01:17:24 · answer #1 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen this is from an old pro. He is trying to make you his side girl. He wants to try and trick you into to some stuff you shouldn't be doing. I think you need to step back and look at him now for what he truly is. He is a predator. He had you now he is on to your friend and if that isn't enough he wants you to cheat with him and in the process ruin your friendship with this girl. Don't be a fool! LOVE DON'T LOVE NOBODY! Even if you don't think that he is a bad guy surely his actions are not honorable. Don't loss your dignity, and respect just for a guy you love. Believe me the two don't go together. A person in love with you should not put you in situations that will lead to your name being dragged through the mud. If the issue persists just tell him that he can't have both. If he wants to be with you then be with you but you are not gonna engage in disrespectful activity with him.
2006-11-24 09:22:02 · answer #2 · answered by Wordsmith 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You broke things off so you have to live with your decision. It sounds like you like him more because he has a girlfriend. There is nothing that you can do until his relationship is over with his current girlfriend. It is only right for you to allow for his new relationship to have the same chance that you and he had. Time will make things easier for you. Meanwhile, try not to think about him all the time. It will only make things worst.
2006-11-24 09:16:27 · answer #3 · answered by Inez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn from this one.
Actions have Consequences!
There are no immediate remedies for your dilemma. Either you wait it out and suffer or you speak your mind (calmly) to your ex and your friend.
2006-11-24 09:17:50 · answer #4 · answered by San Luis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should tell him how u feel
2006-11-24 09:09:47 · answer #5 · answered by hossainatiya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you want him because he has someone else ?
2006-11-24 09:11:23 · answer #6 · answered by boo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋