while at school, i met a girl who is one year youger than i,we have been moving together for two years,now its like she want me to declear mariage of wich is not in my plan at the moment. I want to finish up the school. Iam going into grade 11 next year,besides all this ,i love her very much. help iam getting confused.
2006-11-24 01:01:50 · 9 answers · asked by KING TOOTER 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YOU ARE TOO YOUNG TO GET MARRIED. How old are you anyway?
If you aren't thinking about marrying this girl, why did you move in with her in the first place??????
Or even if you are thinking of marrying her in the near or far future, cohabitation is not advisable. In fact, it is one of the leading causes why marriages fail to work.
2006-11-24 01:05:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wowwww. Slow your roll there! You're only in 10th grade right now? Don't go off and get married, think about this before you do it. Consequences are a big thing in this question, if you go off and marry her..what if you don't really love her? Divorce court here they come. And you are so young! Wait a while, you're not even out of highschool!
Sam <3
2006-11-24 09:05:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are too young and still in school both of you should finished schooling for better future what you have in the moment try to just maintain it as an inspiration but dont think of marriage at the moment or you both will regret it afterwards.
2006-11-24 09:10:32 · answer #3 · answered by lina i 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are to young to be married, finish school that should be your first priorty, then just live life a little, dont jump into marriage so quick.....your relationship will never work in the long run....maybe in 3 to 5 years if you guys are still together and happy then i would discuss marriage
2006-11-24 09:08:13 · answer #4 · answered by bshelby2121 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to explain that you are loving her very much but you are too young to make a big thing like marriage. She wants a certainty that you will never let her but this could happen even if you are married. So, listen to your heart. You don't have to marry her to prove that you love her.
2006-11-24 09:09:42 · answer #5 · answered by alisia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get her straight, tell her, that school comes first, marriage is so far away right now, that you have to finish high school, and then collage, then job prospects, so you can be able to provide for a wife and family. and she should want this also, tell her it is rough out in the world, and you need the skills to survive!
2006-11-24 09:12:02 · answer #6 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're both too young to even be THINKING about marriage. Tell her you both need to get a college education so that you don't live in poverty the rest of your lives
2006-11-24 09:07:57 · answer #7 · answered by Sharon B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are getting confused.
First you are both too young yet and you need to get your education.
Her telling you to decide it out of order at this time.
you need to think about the demand she is making
You both have a lot of years to live and need to make the right choices.
2006-11-24 09:05:59 · answer #8 · answered by apostle1938 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
too young to be married..and besides.there's a lot of time,...don't be in a hurry.........and school must be your priority............
2006-11-24 09:05:32 · answer #9 · answered by nap 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋