okay so alot of people have been making fun of my bf. (im a senior in high school) because hes blind. some people are saying things like you just feel bad for him. and its really starting to bug me. i love him and he knows that. i would date him blind or not whatever hes james and not being able to see dose not change how sweet he is to me. people ask the stupidest questions like when you kiss how dose he find your lips? and how can he find your wast to hold. i dont NO he just can! geez people. what do you say to these people. and i also have a lot of guys mad at me. becasue alot of guys have asked me out and i turned them down and when they found out if was for james they were ticked. people say to dumb and than there will be none of this drama.
i dont want to though. he plays the panio better than anyone i know, and has already at a show stood up and said this number is for melanie the one who gave the the words to sing.
i cant dumb him im only 18 but in love. what do i say?
2006-11-24 01:01:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
They say ignorance is bliss...but for whom? Apparently, those who are asking you such questions are the ones who need a wake up call, not you. I agree, that there are those who are naturally curious about a person who is different, and there's a thin line between wanting to educate ones self, and just being nosey. My six year old son is autistic, and I very often get "how do you get through your day with him"? To put it simply, he's my son, and I love him unconditionally... plus he's much smarter than people give him credit. The same goes for you...It shouldn't matter what ANYONE thinks...what matters is that you and your boyfriend treat eachother with love and respect, reguardless of any "obstacles". For most people who are (for lack of a better word) "normal", to see someone who is different and wonder about their daily life is a natural thing....it'sTACT that sets the boundaries to prevent hurting someone's feelings. So, when someone asks you how it's possible for him to show you affection (just like anyone else could), simply state that he loves you with his heart, not his eyes...and maybe they should try it sometime.
Also...being eighteen, I think you are capable of making decisions reguarding your love life, and friends (even the best ones) may give you advice, but it's ultimately up to YOU on how you use that advice. ....and a side note....I met my husband when I was a senior in High School, and we have been married for nearly ten years, with three beautiful children.
2006-11-24 01:26:58 · answer #1 · answered by VA Mamma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them to back off and tell the guys hes better than any of you will ever be! and just because hes blind dose not mean hes stupid he knows where his mouth is so its easy to find yours and he is trained to use his ears in place of sight.i think your relationship will go very far even to marriage.
best wishes to you and him
2006-11-24 09:08:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is my opinion - TELL THEM TO F**K OFF AND NEVER TALK TO YOU AGAIN. PLEASE don't listen to them. if you really love him and he really loves you then you don't have to listen to those a**holes because if you do so you will be doing the worst mistake of your life. Please listen to me. While I was reading your question it made me angry honestly and I couldn't believe what I was reading. Oh my God we are in 2006 and these fu**ing things are still happening around us. I will tell it to you once more hun, DON'T EVER LISTEN TO THESE PEOPLE. IF YOU LOVE HIM AND HE LOVES YOU DON'T BREAK UP WITH HIM PLEASE.
2006-11-24 09:11:05 · answer #3 · answered by Falcon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're so brave and courageous! You're very sensitive gal , I think that all those ppl had to respect you!
Don't listen them ,ignore them! They think that blind ppl aren't ppl at all ,so geek!
I think that if you'll leave him ,you'll destroy him.
I don't want to press you ,I just wonder how brave you're!
Just be yourself and listen to your heart! :):)
I think that you found your man , your love ,so wonderful!
2006-11-24 09:09:27 · answer #4 · answered by woo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
:) sometimes the best advice that you can get are from the people who make fun of you. they would bring out the best in you. lay out your priorities and from there you can decide.
2006-11-24 09:04:34 · answer #5 · answered by Grasshopper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them to **** off. youre a wonderful person to see past his handicap and love him for who he is. youre graduating soon and trust me, NONE OF THOSE PEOPLE will even matter anymore. you dont have to answer their questions anymore because you wont have to see them everyday! my advice to you is to hang in there! tell them to **** off!
2006-11-24 09:07:27 · answer #6 · answered by courtnestarr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that u must say to ur guys to be serious about this topic they can **** all of the man or woman that say something to u
2006-11-24 09:07:58 · answer #7 · answered by karimi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore them.
2006-11-24 09:05:14 · answer #8 · answered by Dr Dee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is none of anyone elses buisness who you date, enjoy your love however it comes to you.
2006-11-24 09:04:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should ignore the people who make fun of your bf ....
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2006-11-24 09:05:43 · answer #10 · answered by john doe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋