I have a crush on a male/guy friend or coworker at work. At first, I thought he was interested in me since he would tease me and flirt with me a lot. He would even send me emails that contained romantic songs and kept asking if I had a bf. Then I told him, that I liked him and he told me he has a gf. I tell myself that he is unavailable and that we can still be friends. Sometimes I email him at work, but then he told me that I should stop emailing him since he was getting the impression that I was sending him a lot of emails because I like him. I know he isn't the one for me since he's in luv with someone else and we are too different anyway. But then sometimes I cry in the middle of the night about him. He still teases me throughout the work day, by making funny faces, but I kinda prefer he stop. What should I do about my feelings for him? Remember, I see him at work everyday, and our desks are situated close to each other, so we are bound to run into each other.
2006-11-24 00:55:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if he was bold enuff to tell u to stop sending him emails b/c he has a gf and he thought that u liked him...then u should flip it on him and tell him that he shouldnt be sending u emails or flirting with u...b/c he has a gf
2006-11-24 01:06:07 · answer #1 · answered by MsNic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Work romance is not a good idea, What is wrong with being his friend, why does it always have to do with getting involved romantically? He could be a good friend to you, he did tell you he had a girlfriend, so he was honest. So from now on just be a friend to him. nothing wrong with speaking, and having a friendly conversation! and about your feelings for him, you are in control of that. he is not available, move on, look for a friend first, get to know them, for a while, them you can see if the two of you are compatible, to form a beautiful relationship! That is how you find a boyfriend, not jump into bed as soon as you meet them!
2006-11-24 09:07:36 · answer #2 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him you like him and kiss him. dont wait until he does it.
live for today. dont waste precious time!!!!!
2006-11-24 09:04:39 · answer #3 · answered by melissa renston 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a swine (donkey)! Don't think of him anymore, he don't deserve you!
2006-11-24 09:02:54 · answer #4 · answered by alisia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should let it go
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2006-11-24 08:58:40 · answer #5 · answered by john doe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋