I was married years ago and my wife had an affair with my brother in law. We seperated and it took me two years before i felt able to date again. I have since dated two women and both of them have been just as bad as my ex wife. Is there any hope of finding the right person for me
2006-11-24 00:13:52 · 27 answers · asked by mr_scotsguy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
SOMETHING WRONG WITH YOUR SEX.
2006-11-24 00:20:52 · answer #1 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I felt the same way after my divorce...two guys who were just as bad as my ex. I stopped dating for a while-wanted to give myself a new perspective on life and wanted out of it. Just when I was ready to jump back in to dating (six months later), the man I have always dreamed of came walking into my life. Life has been unbelievable great since then. Finding the right person will be like a ton of bricks hitting you--from that day forward you will wonder why you wasted your time on the others and appreciate all the time you have with that special someone meant just for you.
Best of luck.
2006-11-24 00:27:13 · answer #2 · answered by ba374 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you will!
Women are told, 'you have to kiss a few frogs before you find a prince', and I guess the principle works in the same way for men.
However, as someone mentioned earlier try breaking your usual dating habits.
Sometimes reflection of your usual relationship style helps address areas where you maybe going wrong. All soul searching and responsibility taking is hard but worth it when you reach that moment of clarity.
Good luck!
2006-11-24 00:52:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes of course that you will find the right one and settle down with her. Don't get desperate because of the three women you had are all the same. Women are just like us men, some of them good and some of them bad. Unfortunately the bad ones are more in the public and the good ones are more hidden and we have to dig for them.
2006-11-24 00:21:36 · answer #4 · answered by Falcon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you can get a new woman, you must forgive your ex-wife and also stop compairing all women to your ex-wife because the more you do this the more you see all women to be the same.
When it happens that you see them all to be the same and always thinking that they will all end up decieving you.
All the best in your search for your better half.
2006-11-24 00:25:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your possibly Sub-consiously going for the same type of person as your wife. So you end up with a pertner with the same bad points.
Try going out with someone you wouldnt normally go for. For example, i went out with a guy that cheated on me constantly so i decided to date a 'nice' guy even though tho chemistry wasnt really there at first. But i gave him a chance and its turned out great.
Just a suggestion. But there ARE nice women out there who dont cheat. Hope u find that perfect woman :)
2006-11-24 00:20:22 · answer #6 · answered by Minnie Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are out there looking the hardest, you wont find that special someone. More than likely it will be someone whom you already have met, and is in your past.
Take your time, don't get in a rush and always remember, you get what you pay for, or you get where your look. If you go looking at bars and clubs, that is what you get.
Don't be in a rush, she will come along when the time is right.
2006-11-24 00:18:27 · answer #7 · answered by bigmikejones 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is hope. I myself have been divorced 7 years. I just recently met the man of my dreams after meeting many and dating. I found him through internet dating. There were times I felt like just giving it up looking for someone but keep your chin up and keep looking. There is just the right girl out there for you somewhere! :)
2006-11-24 00:24:46 · answer #8 · answered by Nancy T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very important to be friends first before you start dating. Learn about your partner properly, take interest in what they like, spend time with them. Women who stray are usually those who have boyfriends or spouses who can't be bothered about them. Women need to be complimented daily, encouraged and treated like Gold. This does not in any way excuse what your ex or past girlfriend did. I pray you find someone who will really love and appreciate you. Tara
2006-11-24 00:19:01 · answer #9 · answered by lollypoppy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes give it time i know how hard it is to get over something like that i was going out with a guy and he was seeing a married woman the whole time it also took me years to get over that. give it time and just think you are a better person than both of them and there is someone waithing out there for you u just have to find them.
2006-11-24 01:08:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to sort yourself out first and look at why you keep going for the wrong sort. You will find someone when you're least expecting it; trust me on this. And there are decent women out there who are wanting to settle down; I should know as I am one of them!!
2006-11-24 00:23:07 · answer #11 · answered by Little One 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋