Ok I have a new man in my life who tapps that azz ev ery chance he gets well we do it every which way but loose. In all kinds of positions, I suck and lick him every where. My problem is he hasnt cu m? When he comes over I massage him kiss him even give him lots of oral sex and let him watch me play with my coochie. Why is he not *** min? He tell me its no big deal but does this mean he aint enjoyin himself? His pe nis stays on hard for a looong time> He tells me its mind over mater but what I want 2 know that he is being satisfyed also. His sex is very aggressive and fast and I guess since he is 24 that he havent mastered the skill of lovemakin but I want him to get off just as I am? Any suggestions? Pleas dont violate a sistah I needs an answer!! Buy the way im 32.
2006-11-24 00:04:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are intimidating him. It is very important to know whether he has ever been with an older woman before or is this the first time.
It could be that he knows that you are more experienced than him and he is worried that while you are having sex you are thinking that you have had better than him.
I am also not sure if you really wanted to say that he doesn't have an orgasm. I can't see him having sex and not ejaculating. He will get blue **ls.
Anyway, instead of taking the lead let him take it. Let him take you. It could be that you are not giving him a chance be the man. To make the woman want him. You can also teach him to make love to you without making him feel like he doesn't know what he is doing.
Let him take the lead. You can make him want you but do not make him feel that you want him to want you and he is obligated to do it. I hope you understand what i mean when i say that.
Seduce him. Role play. Lingerie
2006-11-24 00:17:05 · answer #1 · answered by Osunwole Adeoyin 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He probably masturbates a few times before you see him in a day, therefore he won't get off fast or at all.
2006-11-24 10:21:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl get yourself a guy who has already mastered the art of love making i know that a younger guy seems interesting but with his aggressive skills he probably will hurt you .. Maybe he has an std that might prevent him from getting off..
2006-11-24 00:10:26 · answer #3 · answered by dallas 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe he's impotent, he can still get it up but he cant get it done. It happens some times to every man but not every time. The only times I was unable was when I was on certain medications. Is he taking drugs?
2006-11-24 00:11:14 · answer #4 · answered by dhebert244 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
He may have a problem called " Retarded Ejaculation ( Delayed Ejaculation ) . An inability to reach a climax . However he can actualy achieve orgasm during masturbation - but not during sexual intercourse .
2006-11-25 00:53:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm. Good question. Sounds like a mental block for him.
2006-11-24 00:13:44 · answer #6 · answered by gary t 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am 39, sometimes we just can't, or we are so focused on getting you off that after awhile it just does not happen, relax, he will. If he's hard, he IS into you, no pun intended.
2006-11-24 00:10:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is on some form of medication, pain killers can dull your senses.
2006-11-24 00:18:15 · answer #8 · answered by MUSHMAN 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Honey,, let me know what he is eating!!! I only wish that i could do that !!!!
Most of us guys,,, are haha,, 3 stroke ers.... hahaha,,,,and thats no fun....
good luck
2006-11-24 00:09:32 · answer #9 · answered by eejonesaux 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe hes a pornsatr or soming , or could be that he needs more time to rida da pounani!
2006-11-24 00:09:12 · answer #10 · answered by butter 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋