Does anyone else think that Friends With Benefits is stupid? Speaking from experience I was the one that caught feelings for the lady (apparently thats what she was!).
People say you have to be mature about these things but surely a woman would want to be treated with a bit of respect a long with the sex and not just a booty call. Maybe i'm stupid and old fashioned but I always thought it was one partner to one or maybe i'm the one thats being immature.
At least with a one night stand everyone is on the same page. Not that I would ideally want that either
2006-11-23 23:54:23 · 4 answers · asked by dfs g 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Too bad you are in another part of the world. I love to be treated like a Lady and very few men know how. One of the problems is that just like you, you treat some one that way and they don´t want to be treated that way. Is it old fashioned? I don´t think so. I think it is sweet.
2006-11-24 00:22:50 · answer #1 · answered by nv 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I've had friends w/benefits, I've had one night stands, and I've also had real relationships. Honestly I don't mind friends w/benefits. Yes, its so that you can be available if someone comes along and you like them. But its also a type of security knowing that you can always go to this friend to get some. As I've told all my friends before sleeping with those I have, "Friends before anything else" Meaning our friendship is more important than sex, its more important than jealousy and all that crap that comes with a relationship.
2006-11-24 00:36:00 · answer #2 · answered by Steph 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
friends with benefits is a cheapened form of friend ship. it means that one person wants to be available to other people.
2006-11-23 23:56:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
good relationship that is with sincerity and faithfulness to each oter
2006-11-23 23:57:10 · answer #4 · answered by Jesus M 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋