i treid to hav sex with my gf 4 d 1st time. . .i tried to insert my penis into her but only the pink glan part went in vaginal opening,& as i slowly staretd to push it in, her vagina started paining terribly.i stoped n after massaging her clit,treid to do it again,but it pained more . .. . i was over her for d 1st attempt n she was over me for the 2nd. .am feelin guilty for givin her d pain :< n she is depressed as she coudn take me in...........can anyone tell wat went wrong? n wat can i do the next time?
2006-11-23 23:04:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
Well, you should use the dildo and do a lot of foreplay.
2006-11-24 00:40:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen carefully: The first time take your time, this is a lovely lady, do you hear? a lovely lady: not you hands ready to get you off. Use some protocol and a little finis, some foreplay. Didn't anyone ever teach you what "for play" was?
You start with the breast and work your way around and get your lady hot, you ... If I start here they'll zap me out and I'm sure I'll lose everything I worked for. Look. Do you have an Uncle? a good older friend or relative or say an older brother that you can trust? Go to them and ask them to teach you a few thigs about the act of love, not sex but love, true love and when you learn about love you'll know not to blow it, you might say.
2006-11-24 07:22:24 · answer #2 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she's a virgin, it is going to hurt her like hell. It hurt me terribly my first time. I was screaming and it took 5 different trys ! LOL It can be that bad. She's just got to deal with it and you'll eventually get in
2006-11-24 10:33:21 · answer #3 · answered by niptuck2630 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lube up and be patient, keep trying, it will eventually open up slowly.
2006-11-24 07:35:41 · answer #4 · answered by spir_i_tual 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tons of foreplay
lubricant
masturbation
& relaxation plays a huge role in losing a virginity for girls
2006-11-24 07:08:56 · answer #5 · answered by Claude 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you need to lub before proceeding further. no enough lub is because the foreplay is not enough to make her wet.
2006-11-24 09:40:23 · answer #6 · answered by zodiaccyber 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
plenty of lube and patience
2006-11-25 09:24:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good Luck!......
Hav a nice time...................
2006-11-24 07:42:09 · answer #8 · answered by Dr. Joe 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
astroglide... buy some:) ...really.
2006-11-24 07:09:09 · answer #9 · answered by causalitist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋