she used to be friendly with everyone suddenly she started thinking as though she is alone,she is not paying any interest on any thing even unable to share .plz suggest me how can I make my friend as usual
2006-11-23 22:57:28 · 4 answers · asked by kandavalli s 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Your friend, as you told, used to be friendly.
A friendly person is very emotional, passionate, active, outspoken and some time very possessive. Your friend might be having some or all of these qualities.
As you are concerned about her state, I believe that she used to share her secrets, her like/ dislikes, with you. Now suddenly she has stopped sharing anything with you.
Perhaps following must be the reasons;
* A possibility that she has found another good friend.
* A possibilty that she has come across a discovery which involves you.
* A possibility that some one near to her, has given her an emotional shock.
* A possibility that due to some family stress she is not sharing any thing with you.
* A possibility that her Boss might have illtreated and threatened to fire her.
There are lot of possibilities which you will have to explore and find out and then eliminate them one by one working thoroughly on each one.
I am sure you will Be able to find out the reason of such behaviour.
Once you find out the reason, you will be able to tackle the situation as you are good friends.
Good luck..........
2006-11-24 02:08:15 · answer #1 · answered by ♪¢αpη' ε∂ïß♪ ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She/He has probably had some sort of revelation about people and things in his/her life (herself included) and is adjusting to the realization of it...give her time, she'll accept, adjust or change. You can't fix everything but just continue to be the nice person you are and let her deal with her "epiphany." We all have them.
2006-11-24 07:03:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are times that people need time for themselves. Just let her know that you are there if ever she needs you. GIve her the space that she wants and then wait for her to open up.
2006-11-24 22:14:12 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be she is foeced to do which she does not like-so depression-
pl find out her liking in the job-pl start doing the same she gets a job totally to her liking-
2006-11-24 21:26:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋