She makes me want to punch myself in the face.
2006-11-23 22:10:47 · 21 answers · asked by Lolly 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you'd get more pleasure punching her than yourself. You'd probably still hate her but at least you wont be disfiguring yourself in the process.
2006-11-23 22:14:22 · answer #1 · answered by bubs_345 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I used to feel pretty intimidated by my fella ex, not sure why, I didn't even know the lady.
One day she called to say her car had broken down and could my fella give her a lift (they broke up amicably and remained friends). My fella was at work, but I said I would. I went round and picked her up. We got talking and that feeling just melted away. She invited me out for a drink with her friends and I accepted.
We are now fab friends which is excellent for the kids. They can have their mum and their dad and their mums and dads new partners all in one room and we all get on really well.
I know that some ex's can cause trouble and things, but I am lucky in that respect.
Maybe it is the unknown that worries you, it certainly was in my case!
2006-11-23 22:18:30 · answer #2 · answered by Liggy Lee 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Want to know how to get your ex back? Change yourself. Don't worry about changing other people, worry about changing yourself. Go to https://tr.im/JAss7
Once you do that then you can start to worry about getting back together with your ex, other wise you will find that you are fighting about all the same things and getting no where. Do what it takes and I promise things will work out in your favor.
The funny thing is I came to the realization that I had to change a little too late. After I was kicked out and after I was about to lose the only things that truly mattered to me - her love. A funny thing happens when we truly love someone and lose them. We do what ever it takes to get them back. For me I had to drop bad habits that had caused not only our relationship to sour but practically every other relationship I had had in the past. Not only with women, but with friends, co-workers, family, you name it.
Which is why I say to you as my ex at the time said to me, the only thing you can do is change yourself. Work on yourself and improve on the person that you already are. Drop the negative things in your life that don't belong there and you will see all of your relationships start to take off to new heights.
2016-04-26 23:13:01 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at it this way. Whatever your boyfriends mistakes were in his marriage (and I'm not saying his divorce was anymore his fault than hers) he has probably learned from them, and won't make the same mistakes with you. Thank his ex for that.
When he puts down the toilet seat, or helps around the house, you can thank her for that too. Thanks to her, your boyfriend may now understand what is required to keep your relationship going. You gotta live and learn!
2006-11-23 22:26:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everytime you feel that hatred welling up inside of you, punch yourself in the face. It won't help much, but it feels so good when you stop!
2006-11-23 22:12:56 · answer #5 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She was just a big part of his life sweetheart and you are jealous because you wanted to be with him instead of her. Jealousy occurs all the time, we are only human.
I am jealous of my boyfriends ex-wife too, especially considering she is an absolute stunner, but you gotta accept it.
And anyway, they finished, and he is with you now. Thats what you gotta tell yourself, she's the one who missed out, not you, so don't beat yourself up about it.
Good luck honey,
2006-11-23 22:17:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
put it this way her loss your gain! hes yours now and you shouldn't worry if any thing she prob feels the same way about you. you just have to except that shes his ex. i have to except my partners ex still wants to talk to him! i get a bit jealous but he tells me she was hard work and he would never go back to her.she has a boyfriend now too. so even better lol good luck! and don't give her the benefit
2006-11-23 22:57:59 · answer #7 · answered by dragontears 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you hate her why do you feel like punching your self in the face?
Anyway why do you hate her i bet she hates you more than you hate her.
2006-11-23 22:15:27 · answer #8 · answered by angel 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Try to remember that there is ALWAYS 2 sides to a story ;).
2006-11-24 00:14:01 · answer #9 · answered by Case C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont know how much poision your body secrets when you have a strong feeling of hatred...
2006-11-23 22:21:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋