I have a friend who is blind, she has been married to a fully sighted guy now for a year, i told her when they first met that something isnt right about the guy but i cant put my finger on it.
i am now almost certain that he is having at least one or more affairs as he has 2 mobile phones, one he keeps on him all the time and the other that is left in the house, my friend has no idea about the other phone.
I dont know how i can tell her and im not sure how to get proof he is doing anything he shouldnt be...Help!
2006-11-23 22:01:24 · 10 answers · asked by Unhinged.... 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
there is nothing for you to do
you got no proof of anything, dont put ideas like that in your friends head, she may be blind but shes not stupid, she ll sense if somethings not right.
the best thing you can do is keep your eyes open
2006-11-23 22:12:58 · answer #1 · answered by purple diamond 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No pun intended but I suggest that you keep an eye on him. I think the idea of asking him "So, why do you have 2 phones?" in front of his wife is a good idea, although she is unable to see his face (for giveaway signs)...I think that blind people tend to be more sensitive in other areas so maybe she can hear in his voice whether or not he's lying. If you want to go even further, somehow get the number for his other phone and text him from a number he won't know, "Hey (his name), I'm home alone and in the mood for some company, how's about it, baby?" or something and see what reply you get.
2006-11-23 22:33:20 · answer #2 · answered by Little One 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have 2 mobile phones. one for work and people i don't really want contacting me, and the other for my missus and family. i'm certainly not cheating on my missus. you probably don't like the fella no harm in that but don't be putting ideas in your friends head without proof. and the proof you think may exist on the personal mobile phone, there is no way for you to get access to it.
2006-11-23 22:05:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time you're over at their house, and in front of your friend and her husband, say casually: "So, Brian, why do you carry 2 phones around with you all the time?"
2006-11-23 22:03:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i really think that you should tell your friend what you think because its for the best incase he breaks her heart. then she could ask the guy. you wont need proof if she is your true friend she should believe you. if not you consult the guy instread.
gud luk =] xXxo0o
2006-11-23 22:04:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her to open her eyes!!!
i'm sorry, that was a bad joke. if your a true friend. just make sure your with her at all times. do a bit of detective work.
2006-11-23 22:06:09 · answer #6 · answered by techno mentalist 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you've not got any proof then I don't see how you can tell her anything.
2006-11-23 22:03:11 · answer #7 · answered by dadn33 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Omg, dont ask him and her that in the same room! what are ya nuts! just call him into a quiet room alone, and ask him politely
2006-11-23 22:07:52 · answer #8 · answered by Pandemonium 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You've no proof.
2006-11-23 23:13:57 · answer #9 · answered by Say It Like You Mean It 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please let the matter run its course.if your friend loves her husband. she will not want you to tell her bad news.some times we have to bite our Tungus.
2006-11-23 22:13:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋