im 16 years old, changed my high school and im the new kid now i have been there for like 4 months already and i made no friends, im not myself i feel worried when i talk to popular ppl even my body shakes sometimes ! can anybody tell me how to overcome that ?
i have a past of the guy who had friends in his oold school many friends, my friends in my old school looove me but they also love making fun of me.... thats my past if that will help...
2006-11-23 20:20:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It's hard to be the new kid, but I bet if you stop being self-conscious for a minute and look around, you will see a lot of other people who are also feeling awkward and out of place at school. Try and talk to another outsider, start with that.
2006-11-23 20:25:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear friend, from what I understand - you have shifted to a new school. you have been teased upon in your earlier school, though you have friends.
Now here is the answer.
Inferiority is not a disease or symptom. it is a psychological situation which arises when we start comparing ourselves with the people around us.
Now, this mentality of comparison is prevalent in children who grow with single parent or children who grow with parents who do not spend time with children and boost their morale.
Left alone the child starts to compare with children who are being well groomed by loving parents and this anguish slowly stems into a complex that the child does not have what the other person has.
REMEDY
Auto suggestion is one of the best solutions. to improve the morale
for example - write in a piece of paper " I AM THE BEST PERSON IN THE WORLD. WHATEVER I NEED, WILL BE AVAILABLE FOR ME. I KNOW THAT I WILL GET IT. I WILL DO ALL THAT IS NEEDED TO GET WHAT I WANT. I WILL GET IT. I KNOW THAT I WILL GET IT."
Now, stand in front of a mirror and read this daily early in the morning - as soon as you wake up-
I assure you that you will find a great change in your attitude.
meditation and yoga are also good solutions.
2006-11-24 04:46:17 · answer #2 · answered by savi1009 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOOK i had troubles making friends in High school.BUT i WAS myself. I JOINED groups. LIKE the photo club. WE also built floats in the fall 4 home coming.THERE are groups you can join. WHEN i went i joined YOUTH 4 Christ. WE would find a class room or just out side and we would pray each day before class.THATS how i made it through. I HOPE THIS HELPED YOU. PRAYING 4 you. star
2006-11-24 04:31:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its up to u wheather u want to change...the most important thing is to find the reason y u bein a laughing stock....n u must overcome ur fear by talking to the person who make fun of u..i use to b lonely..n i dun care if i have a fren or not..i have a life to go on...if people think nonsense bout me i jz ignore
2006-11-24 04:26:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is very difficult to be an Indian and try to find out on USA web side help. How is your English today"\?
Bye
2006-11-24 04:24:18 · answer #5 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be carefree. Controll your worry thoughts. When such thoughts come to your mind think of some thing pleasent instead.
2006-11-24 04:26:30 · answer #6 · answered by rams 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i understand your situation.......u're just being shy or too self-conscious.....relax.....think about nothing except the presence.....imagine u're still in your old school n' how's things going as usual......be yourself.....or just make one close friend first n' discuss your problem....good luck
2006-11-24 04:27:58 · answer #7 · answered by Marijuana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋