we are in love i just need advice on it i am an honest faihfull person just feeling confused and alone!
2006-11-23 20:11:33 · 19 answers · asked by nicole_elise_ne 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
it is for drug charges and i guess i know i can wait truely just dont know if i should? he is a great guy and treats me goood but also i have a daughter too thats not his! i/ve b/een with hm two years!
2006-11-23 20:33:59 · update #1
this s really helping!
2006-11-23 21:33:48 · update #2
hmmm...This is hard i'm 21 years old hes 26 my daughter is 3 and calls him daddy this is his second time in jail and he does say he wants to marry me when he gets out if i stay true to him! he says he wants to have a baby but that seems ridiculous to me at this point i have one child im raising alone al,lready at 21 ahhhhh!
2006-11-23 21:37:19 · update #3
in regards too the bringing dopers home dont be so judgmental buddy my boyfriend has more good qualities than some dope charges and i have more class than to bring anything to do with this around my child!!!
2006-11-23 22:24:34 · update #4
if you are in love you shouldnt need to ask! he will only do 1 /2 years probs anyway, you dont say what he was in for?. or how long?. if you feel he is the one wait and it will fly by. Just fulfill your life and you will be ok. if my partner was in prison i would wait for him. no doubts.
2006-11-23 20:16:32 · answer #1 · answered by rachie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well that all depends o n you! Are you willing to wait ?
what state are u in? Because most states time sentences are half time. How much do you love him and how long have you been together?
I have been with my bf 10 years we have a 3 year old daughter and he is doing 16 months ...again! I waited last time and I guess I am this time but if I meet someone good for me I might consider dating. What he doesn't know will not hurt besides I think if I was in AND he was out he would date people. I say if you meet someone go for it but thats up to you. Would he wait???
2006-11-23 20:19:24 · answer #2 · answered by calieyecandy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think only you know the answer to that.I think you are in love with him.I do not know him nor do i know if he has a history of being in and out of jail.I do know that no matter. How much you love someone that you can not change somone that does not want to change nor can you help someone that thinks the only problem they have is you thinking they have a problem.People make mistakes.some people change after being in jail some people do not.if he has a history then i would ask you>Where do his choices leave you in his life?Where do his choices leave him in your life?3 years is a long time when you have to live your life without him because of the choices he choose to make.He should get two days for one for goodtime=1 and a half years if he was sentenced to 3 years only you know if you should stay or go
2006-11-23 20:42:14 · answer #3 · answered by noga 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What did he do? If it’s very bad. go on with your life you are not married and its going to be your burden to and you don't deserve it, because he made a mistake not you. Don't wait for him, move on with your life and if you are meant to be you'll meet him again. I don't know how much he loves you or visa versa, but three years is a long time and if you now for a fact that you want to marry him, wait for him and if you are not sure, go on. What kind of person is he? Bad? If he is will he change and how does he treat you? Make a list of all the bad/good things, then you decide. If you decide to go on, do it in a good way, because he is also going through a tuff time. Wait till he settle down in jail then let him know, I think he already wonders if you are going to stay with him. Be a friend to him, he will need you... To help him and give him support its better to let him think you'll stick with him and you go and visit him, but outside that walls you go on with your own life, this is just a suggestion for his sake. But in the meanwhile just chill and let everything go his way and then you see were the road takes you. It’s not your responsibility to wait. Good Luck
2006-11-23 20:37:46 · answer #4 · answered by confussie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously, if he were concerned about your daughter or you, he wouldn't have allowed his need for the proceeds of drugs or the penchant for his addiction to interfere with the relationship. Now, he's going to a place that's going to change his total overall outlook on life, his ability to form interpersonal relationships and even his sexual preferences(trust me, even the baddest boys get turned in the joint!). So, what you're asking us is: "Should I expect him to be a different man when he comes out and will I like what he's become as a result?" The answer is: Yes, he'll be different. Will you like the result? I doubt it. They don't rehabilitate men in jail, they lock them away from the civil people of society and train them to believe nobody can be trusted. Good luck!
2006-11-23 21:12:01 · answer #5 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Three years is a long time...I guess what it boils down to..is how much is he worth? Is he worth waiting three years for? Will the time alone be worth it to have him in your arms once more?
Also, would you want him to wait for you if the roles were reversed? Take into account all of that, and make your decision.
2006-11-23 20:13:59 · answer #6 · answered by Shaide 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on whether or not you are willing to put your life on hold for the next three years while he makes ammends for his mistakes. It is a tough call and only you know your capibilities and what you are able to reconcile your life to during his absence and the future when he returns. Good luck!
2006-11-23 20:28:34 · answer #7 · answered by jodie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-29 09:52:13 · answer #8 · answered by sessums 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your daughter needs a mother who protects her from dopers and criminals instead of bringing them home.
2006-11-23 21:52:12 · answer #9 · answered by ms.fruitbat 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My daughter waited 5yrs, he got out and it lasted 3mths because eventhough they saw each other on visitation and wrote a million letters, people change.
2006-11-23 21:18:23 · answer #10 · answered by livlafluv 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋