I live in the U.S. and my girlfriend is from brazil. We met in the U.S. but after almost two years together. Her work visa expired and returned home to renew it. Unfortunately that was denied. So for the pass six months we've been communicating every day via telephone and internet. I was going there in two months from now to get married. But last week I got proof from her home online telephone bill, which I pay for with my credit card. That she has been calling some guy from the U.S. for several months. She denied it at first but after confronting her with the proof. Her explanation was that I was the only man for her, and that the calls were not important enough for me to worry about. There are just acquantices. That they don't mean anything. Well, if that was the truth why didn't she mention this ever before and tried to deny it in the first place. I've lost her trust and have since broken up with her.
2006-11-23 20:07:10 · 14 answers · asked by it hurts 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Good job sweetie! If she had nothing to hide in the first place she would have told you about it, or not lie when you confronted her with it. If she didn't tell you because you would have gotten upset, then she should have not been doing it. Maybe you we her only one (meaning the only one to get her legal)for right now until she became a citizen.... then divorced you for the other man she lied about! I'm not saying that all men she talked to could have been potentially dating her, but be aware of her motives.. There are alot of things that I could get away with because my other half does not check up on me.... but why do it??? To betray him, loose his trust, or even potentially break his heart?? NOT WORTH IT!
2006-11-23 20:22:38 · answer #1 · answered by wherenai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok for starters, what is your question there? Some comments though: if you are happy with your decision then be it. If you think you will be happier without her then be it too. You don't want to be cautious everytime she goes out of your sight do you? But if you think, it's just a mistake or you think you still trust her then do not break up with her or forgive and forget. If you decided to really end it all, next thing you should do, is to be able to forget the past and move on with your life. But you see, if I may quote some lines of Thomas A. Kempis' in love, it thinks nothing of trouble, it attempts what is above it's strength and pleads no excuse of impossibility. When he who does not love would faint, grow tired and weary- Love does not. Though weary it is not tired, though pressed it is not easy to give up. think about that and I hope in every realtionship we come across in our lifetime, we learn our lessons and from there- be able to grow- and be able to love more and sacrificing more.
2006-11-24 04:18:58 · answer #2 · answered by yunesa 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yep she got caught so that is good that way she can have that guy shes been calling pay her bills! Next time you should try looking for girls within the US, instead of these ones just trying to get or stay in the US!
2006-11-24 04:26:04 · answer #3 · answered by calieyecandy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life goes on ... and think of how much money you saved man on the phone bills ....and still go to Brazil for it has lovely women and have fun .
2006-11-24 04:09:41 · answer #4 · answered by Ay! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You learn what I don't want to experience of net or yahoo personals.
Sorry and get in order with your life.
Bye
2006-11-24 04:10:24 · answer #5 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sorry about that.......maybe she was afraid to hurt u n' thus not telling u but she shouldn't be doing it in the first place......now we know trust is important in a long lasting relationship.......all da best in love!!!
2006-11-24 04:13:31 · answer #6 · answered by Marijuana 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is over. Dont keep thinking about it. Make new friends.
2006-11-24 04:10:53 · answer #7 · answered by rams 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I AM SO SORRY. BEST you found out now she was a fraud. HOPE you find a good woman.
2006-11-24 04:09:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move on pal. Do not be a cry baby.
2006-11-24 04:28:00 · answer #9 · answered by Junior 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't show this in such a public online place. But, still, I understand how you feel.
2006-11-24 04:10:00 · answer #10 · answered by ♫tweet75♫ 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋