so should Ileave him alone since he''''s not ready and I am?rest of what do I do?

Answer 1

Why are you wating your time for him.

Answer 2

When a man says he is not ready is best to leave him be becuz the more u try to force the issue the more he will resent you for making him feel bad about not being ready. Some men will even feel like you are trying to corner them and that will be a major turn off from him even wanting to remain friends. I say leave him alone even if it means u need to cut the friendship off to do it. Word of advice...when a man makes up his mind about something he rarely changes it even if its stupid. The mistake of it is the only thing that will teach him a lesson for next time. So if he has told you that he is not ready he has thought about u, u guys future and everything and how it will help or take him away from his goals in life but decided that it was not worth it right now. So make it easier on yourself and walk away with some dignity and leave him be. There are plenty of men in the world am sure you can find one who is ready.

Answer 3

When somebody is not ready..... then you arent looking for the same thing as you are at that particular time. Give him time , let him figure out for himself what he wants and then there will be no regrets on either side. I had a boyfriend whom I Knew wasnt ready for a committment , but I wanted it so badly that I ended up compromising myself and wasting my time. We ended up resenting each other - but ofcourse now - I have a 2year old(whom I love dearly) but I support him on my own. Yeah - you guessed it : He is still not ready ! and I guess some people never figure out what they want and some never grow up!... Give him space, meanwhile get on with the important thingz.

Answer 4

Yes ..move on ....time and better things dont wait for people ...