ok to make a long story short i was in this relationship for about 3years, i recently gave birth to our son on may the 26 and he passed on the 30 of june and the cause was sids anyway in about 3 of 4 weeks me and now my b/f no longer baby daddy breaks up with me he said tha i dont treat our kids equal ok i wonted to make our relation ship work and he didnt i was willing to work on the promblem i tried so hard to get him back i love him and the kids and i would like for my family to be back together now here is the promblem it has been three months and now its like he call when he is bored and has nothing to do so lately he has been asking me to come over so the first time i went it was the same as old times got straight to it so the second time i went he was like we got to use a condom so is there some body else he called a third time and we just cuddled and this all happen in a week i would do anything to get him back any suggestions please help i tried to give it some time
2006-11-23 19:25:25 · 5 answers · asked by KASSIE G 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
please i need only people with real advice because this is my life
2006-11-23 19:26:56 · update #1
my twin sister died when we were 6 weeks old from herpes encephaltis, i am now 19. my parents almost broke up when she died but they dought with it. they broke up 2 years later cuz my mom got obsessed with my dead twin. bit they got back together 8 years later when i was 10. have been together9 and a half years now. theres still a chance for u! go for it!!! email me twinkari87@yahoo.ca
2006-11-23 19:32:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was he the father of the child you lost? and you have other children that are not his? hope that's straight. Number one, where were the children when you were with him. Number two, what is it that you need to work on regarding your children.
Before anything and anyone. Your children need you. They come first. I am so sorry for the child you both lost. He is hurting, Hurting more than you realize. You wrote/no longer baby daddy, I am sorry , That is very cold thing to say.Where does that come from. You are hurting as well and it seems you both are taking it out on each other.When you need to find each for strength and understanding and some peace with such a loss. My advise is for you. You need not run every time he calls, its his way of getting back at you. for no real reason. just his pain and how he is dealing with it. You need to stay home and take care of your children, they know and they hurt too. When you hurt, they hurt. Built your relationship with them first. He will see you for what you really are ,A MOM. he needs that as well. Maybe setup a weekly family dinner.enjoy the dinner as family and then plan a game, a walk , something you all can do together. That's how you built your family. Give each other a break right now. You both need it
2006-11-24 03:48:42 · answer #2 · answered by livelovelaugh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well when you both show some relationship maturity and some safe sex practices then ask someone maybe jerry springer for some advice it seems your level
2006-11-24 03:28:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its all obvious that he has anther girl just drop it and don't pay attention to him just pretend that you don't want him no more and that you have someone else or that you don't need him...just show him that your strong and then you'll prove to him that he's just a waist of time and he will come back to you and beg you....
2006-11-24 03:35:51 · answer #4 · answered by ♥cRazY♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is using you for booty calls and you are eating it up. Break ties with him and find some one who wants you for you not for sex. Good Luck.
2006-11-24 03:28:59 · answer #5 · answered by stormyjoem 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋