How can I help my friend?

Question

One of my best friends has had something awful happen to her, I think she was raped. The problem is, she won't tell me what happened. She's been distant from some people in our group since it happened, and she's made friends with people who relate to her but they're a bad influence.
A friend she told said that she doesn't want to tell me because last time something bad happened to her I told someone. I talked to the school councellor because I was concerned, I just wanted to help her.
If she really doesn't want me to know, that's fine. What do rape victims need in a friend?

I think she's been raped because she was sexually assaulted a while ago. She hasn't told me directly, but she's said a lot of things like "worse than last time". I asked people who know if she was raped and they wouldn't give me a straight "no". Even if it isn't rape, it's some form of sexual abuse, and that's bad enough. She's been cutting, too.

Answer 1

Stop pushing the whole thing. Whenever she feels comfortable enough to talk to you about what happened she will and if not let it go. For the main time, just be good friends with her, treat her like you would treat your other friends. Cuz the worst thing ppl do sometime is feel sorry for someone that is not looking for sympathy. She may not even want to talk or think about it. So if you keep bringing it up, or go digging, she might actually hate you and put her frustration on you. So just treat her like nothing bad happened to her. That might help her get over the whole thing.

Answer 2

u should tlak 2 her about it

Answer 3

why r u so sure that she is being raped?

Answer 4

Talk with her.

Answer 5

a report, then get that bastard to jail.